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Weekly Flylady Thread 27th April 2009

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  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,489 Forumite
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    edited 1 May 2009 at 9:13PM
    Monday - Kitchen and dining room:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE
    Terrible Tuesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE
    Wednesday Wonders ~ Cruddy Study & Bathrooms:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE
    Thursdays are Thrilling!! - Living pit, hallway, stairs!!:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE
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    Friday is Funky! - childrens rooms! ~ spare rooms or just attack a neglected room!!:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE

    Extras
    Tax Credits renewal
    [STRIKE]Insurance - return 'dud' certificate and send proof of NCB[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Buy sympathy card for family of acquaintance[/STRIKE] (Breast cancer claimed another:o)
    Update bank account
    Email CSA
    [STRIKE]Deliver Cerificates to Sue (scouts)[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Buy presentation tickets[/STRIKE]
    make dentist appt (thanks for reminder Jo)will have to be next week now...
    Filing
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Flylady_Flower
    Flylady_Flower Posts: 2,855 Forumite
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    Valli wrote: »
    Jo - I'm liking your style ...show him what he's lost.

    Now...gossip?

    Yea, you know you can't say something like that on here unless you are going to tell all, we're all nosey as hell you know...:rotfl:

    And well done on the gym too - go for it hun, you may not loose it all, but it's a start and more than I'm doing...
    LBM April 2013 - £29,000.00
    Vanquis CC's PAID - Debenhams SC PAID - A+L OD PAID - Asda CC £783.75
    Barclaycard CC £1400.78 - BoS CC PAID - Freemans Cat PAID
    F/D Loan & CC £1458.96 - Santander Loan PAID - Mum Loan PAID
    RBS OD PAID - F/D OD £1026.52
    Weekly Grocery Challenge - £95.00 budget / spend £-
  • Flylady_Flower
    Flylady_Flower Posts: 2,855 Forumite
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    Valli wrote: »
    Monday - Kitchen and dining room:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE
    Terrible Tuesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE
    Wednesday Wonders ~ Cruddy Study & Bathrooms:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE
    Thursdays are Thrilling!! - Living pit, hallway, stairs!!:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE
    lFriday is Funky! - childrens rooms! ~ spare rooms or just attack a neglected room!!:D:D:D:D:D:DDONE

    Showoff...:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    LBM April 2013 - £29,000.00
    Vanquis CC's PAID - Debenhams SC PAID - A+L OD PAID - Asda CC £783.75
    Barclaycard CC £1400.78 - BoS CC PAID - Freemans Cat PAID
    F/D Loan & CC £1458.96 - Santander Loan PAID - Mum Loan PAID
    RBS OD PAID - F/D OD £1026.52
    Weekly Grocery Challenge - £95.00 budget / spend £-
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
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    Hmmmm, long story short.

    He is techincally still married, they have been seperated since about 4-5 months before I started seeing him. Anyway, hes still never asked for a divorce....she still calls him whenever there is any sort of drama in her life and Ive had enough and he wont put her in her place.....or more importantly, give me my place and ultimately its come between us.

    I didnt want it to be over, but clearly hes more prepared to lose me than her so whatever, right?

    Well...............they have both as it turns out been invitied to a mutual friend of theirs wedding - as a couple............. not individually.

    And Im pretty sure thats where hes sloped off to this weekend. He had said he wasnt going, there had been a mix up with the invites, the brides parents didnt know they werent together anymore, etc etc.

    I went to work today to pick up the girls and found out completely by accident that he has taken the day as a holiday........ I know thats where he's gone.

    It doesnt take a rocket scientist. I was tempted to call him, but decided not to bother. What was i hoping to achieve from the call? And why do i even care?

    So what?! So I went swimming to the gym etc etc.

    Now your all totally up to date.
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • soappie
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    Valli wrote: »

    OMG I've heard of getting back to nature but harvesting radishes Au Naturel..hope no one was looking...or did you just get undressed to eat it?;)

    Of course I undressed to eat it - just how else do you eat a home grown radishe nude? :rotfl:
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • soappie
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    . Have you tried beetroot - I grow them really for the leaves which you can cut and cut - my current ones have been in nearly a year and are still going strong.
    p

    I have some beetroot growing (I love them - roots and all!) but they're nowhere near ready yet.
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,489 Forumite
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    edited 1 May 2009 at 9:21PM
    ooh Jo good for you for standing up to him...and now make him pig sick (sorry not a flu joke) when he seeds the new, svelte, in control person you are...how pathetic - and she can't be much better clinging on to him. How sad.
    he sounds completely spineless IMHO.

    Flower since you're around - is there a product you can paint on a wall over paint to stop THAT colour (yellow but I can't remember who was having the problem yesterday) so you can paint a fresh colour over it?
    Have looked - it was Poohbear yesterday
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!

    I dont believe it - he just rang me. To ask if im ok!!!!!

    I asked why I wouldnt be ok and kept supercool!! He said he had missed calls - and was it me?!?!?

    Nope it wasnt me - you dont want to be with me, so it will never be me ringing you again......

    Off to pour some wine............hmmm defeats the object of the gym. Am off to find something decent to eat!!
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,489 Forumite
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    So he has deleted your number then?
    Or is feeling guilty.
    Or messing some other poor person about.
    Well done on the dignity!

    back shortly - just off to collect DS
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    Jo, well done for being so strong. He sounds like a complete !!!!. Sounds like he was making an excuse to ring you. You show him.
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
    Sealed pot challenge no.576 Loose change pays your debt challenge #2 no.1 Wannabe flylady
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