When to start dating again?

NAR

Taye if you see a minister in the foyer of the hotel - run! :eek:
Hopefully you will have good "clear the air" discussions and will come back knowing whether it will work or not.

whitewing

NAR wrote: »

Taye if you see a minister in the foyer of the hotel - run! :eek:
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Lol, I'm losing track now; I thought he went down south, not Greta Green!

Hotspur

NAR wrote: »

Taye if you see a minister in the foyer of the hotel - run! :eek: .

NAR - how could you, you've kinda let the cat out of the bag now.

Taye - Sssh don't tell him I told you but 'Dave' found out about this thread sent us all a PM and invited us down to the hotel this weekend for the surprise engagement party :j We've all been out and got posh frocks and new suits now so you have to go!:rotfl:

But seriously, just do what you think is right for you. It would be a shame to let 'Dave' go from your life completely though.

H

jinky67

Lunar_Eclipse wrote: »

On here? MSE? How? Spill the beans please; a little side story will simply add to the overall romance. Not diverting the thread, honest!

Horace wrote:

So Jinky what's the goss?:D

God you are so nosy:p:p:p:p and it is not my thread:D

I did spill the beans on another thread on here I was gonna link it but couldnt find it:rolleyes:


now I have:T:T:T:T took ages:rotfl:

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?p=16350969&highlight=#post16350969

Horace

Jinky - nosey is my middle name...its how I find out things and why I am good at my job:rotfl:

Taye - go down for the weekend, separate rooms, if you don't get on you can always come home. Don't live your life wondering about what ifs..you owe it to yourself to find out.

I dont tell my mum anything, she disapproves. She doesnt know that I live on my own, she doesnt know that I have my own business and I am very happy. So what if she disapproves - she is the one that moans about wanting to visit Australia yet she is too vain to have her photo taken for a passport and has never had one or visited any country abroad - the furthest she has been is the Channel Islands:rolleyes: I, on the hand have travelled and visited some of the places she wanted to see.

Taye

Ok so ... phew.. erm...

Bullet bitten, i've had a couple of good chats with dave, tbh i think the whole him being away thing has given us time to just talk which i think is important without the stress of a physcal presance, as much as one of those conversations was abit heavy, last night we have a good chat about random and lighter things which was nice.

He really want's me to go down this weekend, so im gonna go... hmm i know that sounds bad "he wants me to go" .. ok "i want to go".

I think to be fair thats why so much of this freaks me out so much, i do REALLY like him and i don't like feeling this out of control of my feelings.

Anyway i've decided to go, seperate rooms i made that quite clear on the phone, moneys abit tight and i feel bad but Daves deposited £40 into my account for petrol so i can get there, bags are all packed picking up th kids from school, driving them to my mums then im heading down..eek.

If you don't hear from me in a few days Dave turned out to be an Axe murderer haha... wish me luck.

jinky67

GOOD LUCK :T

aligerdie

Just caught up again...

and yay!!!:j I'm so glad you decided to go and see him!

No pressure this weekend, it gives you the chance to spend time together without any distractions, plus with your own room you can hide if you need to!

Just wanted to say good luck, have a lovely time, and what a lovely bloke for helping you with petrol money, shows how much he wants to see you.

Enjoy yourself xx

nicki_2

Good luck!!! :D Can't wait for the next update :D

rach29

Yay Taye :j

It's ok to be afraid of your feelings, just remember that you have them because you like him.

Fancying someone involves being a little "out of control" because your body & mind are reacting to him. Try to see it as a good thing (and take a few deep breaths )

I am glad you've decided to take the plunge & go, just breathe slowly & enjoy, oh & don't forget to update us when you get back