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When to start dating again?

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  • barnaby-bear
    barnaby-bear Posts: 4,142 Forumite
    Taye wrote: »
    Well i did manage abit of a handholdy/cuddle today ... not exactly a kiss but better? :o

    you could sort of tell he was hovering abit, you could almost read his mind as he debated going in for a quick kiss or not.

    Eventually he decided to try it, and i didn't run away if that helps..:o. but i didn't exactly make the guy feel better either ... he went in for a kiss and i moved he did sort of seem to take it in his stride though but i do feel kinda bad, i need to chill and give the guy a break.

    I know your gonna shout ... but i dunno i guess im wondering how long he'll put up with me? i know he say's he doens't mind waiting but the fact that he keeps trying kinda makes me feel like he's abit more impaitent than he says. I know i can't make to poor guy wait forever and i know rationally it's only been a few days but i guess im just abit concerned i'll get frustrated :confused:

    Freudian slip ;)
  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    Freudian slip ;)

    haha you know what i mean!! i dunno i'm just feeling flustered, scared i'll make him wait to long and scared i've forgot it all.
    This months aim :- Stick to food Budget / find £100 for my car insurance
    May GC :- £250/£234.55 :T:A:T
    June GC :- £150/£127.37:eek:
  • Heath84
    Heath84 Posts: 579 Forumite
    Dont worry hun, as soon as it happens you'll realise you had no need to worry! Im sure of it!
  • Mutter_2
    Mutter_2 Posts: 1,307 Forumite
    Heath84 wrote: »
    k2tog wrote: »
    Well done Taye! :j
    Glad you went to see him and had a good time. He sounds great. In fact, if I wasn't already happily married I'd ask if he had a brother :D. QUOTE]

    Does he have a brother?
    :p
    Or a father?
  • BrokeBrunette
    BrokeBrunette Posts: 868 Forumite
    Don't worry about it Taye - just go with the flow and whatever feels comfortable/right for you. I reckon this time next week you'll be wondering what on earth you were worrying about ;)
  • BrokeBrunette
    BrokeBrunette Posts: 868 Forumite
    Mutter wrote: »
    Heath84 wrote: »
    Or a father?


    or an older brother? :D
  • Mutter_2
    Mutter_2 Posts: 1,307 Forumite
    rach29 wrote: »
    Yay Taye,

    I don't need to write a Mills & Boon, you & Dave are writing your own!

    So happy that you met him today & that you're going to have your picnic. :D

    I'm on the edge of my seat waiting for the next chapter......
    Taye is the current Editor of Mills and Boon. :rotfl:
  • NAR
    NAR Posts: 4,863 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Taye wrote: »
    haha you know what i mean!! i dunno i'm just feeling flustered, scared i'll make him wait to long and scared i've forgot it all.
    Sure it's just like riding a . . :eek: :o:o (I'll get me coat!) :D
  • Heath84
    Heath84 Posts: 579 Forumite
    Shotgun on the brother if there is one!
  • BrokeBrunette
    BrokeBrunette Posts: 868 Forumite
    Heath84 wrote: »
    Shotgun on the brother if there is one!


    yes but I'm old, so I need the older brother!!!
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