When to start dating again?

rach29

littlemissmoney wrote: »

The next chapter is called "The kiss in the park"

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Taye

you guys are terrible, i hope you arn't holding your breath.

jinky67

Taye wrote: »

you guys are terrible, i hope you arn't holding your breath.

Of course we are......you are out there getting a life....we are jealous:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:





well thats not true for me I have a lovely guy already...I just like to see people happy:T:T:T:T

Taye

Well i did manage abit of a handholdy/cuddle today ... not exactly a kiss but better?

you could sort of tell he was hovering abit, you could almost read his mind as he debated going in for a quick kiss or not.

Eventually he decided to try it, and i didn't run away if that helps..:o. but i didn't exactly make the guy feel better either ... he went in for a kiss and i moved he did sort of seem to take it in his stride though but i do feel kinda bad, i need to chill and give the guy a break.

I know your gonna shout ... but i dunno i guess im wondering how long he'll put up with me? i know he say's he doens't mind waiting but the fact that he keeps trying kinda makes me feel like he's abit more impaitent than he says. I know i can't make to poor guy wait forever and i know rationally it's only been a few days but i guess im just abit concerned i'll get frustrated

jinky67

Taye wrote: »

Well i did manage abit of a handholdy/cuddle today ... not exactly a kiss but better?

you could sort of tell he was hovering abit, you could almost read his mind as he debated going in for a quick kiss or not.

Eventually he decided to try it, and i didn't run away if that helps..:o. but i didn't exactly make the guy feel better either ... he went in for a kiss and i moved he did sort of seem to take it in his stride though but i do feel kinda bad, i need to chill and give the guy a break.

I know your gonna shout ... but i dunno i guess im wondering how long he'll put up with me? i know he say's he doens't mind waiting but the fact that he keeps trying kinda makes me feel like he's abit more impaitent than he says. I know i can't make to poor guy wait forever and i know rationally it's only been a few days but i guess im just abit concerned i'll get frustrated

seriously hun just relax and go with the flow:A

Errata

If you were French you would have already done the mwah mwah on both cheeks as a matter of courtesty and that can serve as a halfway house before going on to the full blown Gone With the Wind grapple and snog.
Hand holding will have to do for just now !

Don't let him rush you. You set the pace. Blokes are always keener if they have to wait than if it's handed to them on a plate. If you see what I mean.

Taye

I know i shouldn't be stress but i do.

but when is concidered normal/expected for sort of 1st base,2nd base etc?

jinky67

Taye wrote: »

I know i shouldn't be stress but i do.

but when is concidered normal/expected for sort of 1st base,2nd base etc?

stop bloody worrying about it:mad::mad::mad:

relax and just go with the flow....there is no right and wrong.....wait till you feel comfortable with the guy and then it will all just fall into place:D

rach29

Taye, there is no such thing as "normal" do what feels right for you.

If you feel you want to kiss him, do it. If you aren't ready wait. He seems like a lovely guy and he knows a bit more about you now, so he'll understand & wait for you.

Keep talking to him though, so he isn't confused by what might seem like mixed signals.

NAR

Taye wrote: »

going to see him again on Sunday we're going to the park and i've promised to do a picnic so i better head to the OS board for some ideas.

That's all very well for you Taye, but what are we all going to do all day tomorrow?
Gosh what a difference a week makes! :j