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mogchops

I am so sorry for your loss Urg, sending love and prayers. Please look after yourself. xxxxxxx

Buffythedebtslayer

I have been thinking about you since I read your news and posted. I can't write very well about stuff like this, the loss of my father is still quite raw and so I tend to just shut up.

I just wanted you to know that you really are in my thoughts and will be for a while yet

do what you need to to get through it all my friend

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

taxi73

URG..I'm so sorry to hear your news.Hypno has summed everything up brilliantly.My prayers and thoughts are with you along with big hugs xxxxx
Sorry I'm useless at writing stuff,just wish I could come along and give you a big hug...just go with your feelings and let it all out.Take care xx

poorbutrich

Urg - I have been following your MSE progress from lurkdom and just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about your mum.

Please look after yourself and know that there are people who care about you.

pbr xxxx

hypno06

Thinking of you today x

Pippilongstocking

Urg - so sorry to hear about your Mum - you've alot of courage and strength to be getting on with your days at the moment.

Thinking of you lots - I hope everything goes smoothly. Huge hugs from all of us up here.xx

taxi73

Thinking of you xxx

urg123

Thank you for your kind messages.

The funeral went well and was well attended. By the end of the day I was all cried out and numb. I have been off all week and my brothers and I have been helping dad with the practical stuff. I've also taken some time to catch up on the house - I had neglected it over the last few weeks what with mum being unwell and the regular visits to the hospital.

It's been a strange few days - OH went back to work on Tuesday. I have been feeling very numb - I think it's the exhaustion that I have been experiencing. I catch myself crying at the oddest times. I know that this is part f grief and I'll have to deal with it as it comes.

Thank you all for your kind thoughts - I know that this is a place where I will be supported.

Urg x x

hypno06

(((hugs)))

Just remember - no rules xx

taxi73

Hugs for you xxxx
Hypno is absolutely right..do as you feel not as anyone expects you to feel.