MSE Pregnancy Club VIII

Glamazon

LouLee2008 wrote: »

Hi guys, ive just been to the docs as i have a infection called anaerobes? and i ahve to have antibiotics, has anyone had these at all?

Looking at my clinical system it can cause Septacaemia for you or newborn so get these antibiotics down you!
It seems its common in that it appears on normal skin but can be dangerous.
Sorry to worry you

I'm very upset now - just spoke to my Dad and my wicked Stepmum (who he's no longer with) says she doesn't want my sister travelling up here with Dad in the lorry for 4 hours just to spend 3 hours with me! I am devastated and so is my little sister - I was looking forward to having tea with her and treating her! Haven't seen her since Christmas.
Biatch - it's OK for my sister to go in the lorry with Stepum's boyfriend but not Dad. Stupid COW - if that gets blocked it's a thnk with udders what produces Milk - going to text her now!

Sami - it was awful cos they do a test where they scrape your pee-hole :eek: and you've got your legs in stirrups! Not very dignified but better than an umbrella down your todger!

Claire_Jones_3

Sami - sorry you are having a difficult time, we're here for you to rant to.

All the bills are paid from my bank account, it was easier as DH gets paid every 4 weeks so 13 pay days a yr which means the dates change from one pay day to the next and always got paid on a set date. Now I'm self-employed thats different but I just manage the funds in the account to make sure theres enough in there to pay the bills. We only have a really low income (DH is on £13k and I'm not working at the moment) however we do get about £480 per month from tax credits and £80 child benefit which keeps our heads above water. We fortunately only have our mortgage and no other debts but thats still £575 per month to find.

:mad:Rant/hormonal woman moan warning!!:mad:

My mum and Nan have wallpapered all my front room, stairs and upstairs landing for me and it looks stunning, we've done all the woodwork etc and the new carpet has been fitted. So happy with it all but I ordered a new corner sofa which the company tried to deliver yesterday.

They asked to borrow a knife so they could take the packaging off which they left outside where DS1 could get it (19months old!):eek:, They ripped the leather sofa on my front door, got it jammed under the sill on the door and snapped it off, scratched the woodwork on the door frames as they tried to force the sofa in. They took the sofa away and left all the packaging and now I'm the one that has to do all the ringing about to get quotes to send to the delivery company to get them to pay to repair the damage to the front door. I may not even be able to get a replacement part so will need a whole new door and in the mean time rainwater could come into my hallway. I half expected there to be a scratch on the sofa and I'd have to wait for a new one but this takes the biscuit, no sofa and damaged property!! Anyone would think being almost 36 weeks pregnant, looking after a 19 month old was easy enough its own without all this stress.

I was doing ok with it all for a while yesterday but after spending about 3 hours just trying to get someone to look at it I've had enough. Bump was doing some crazy movements yesterday evening and was starting to think I was going to go into labour, it was really hurting! Hopefully he's calmed down a bit now but still hurting. I'm at the midwife tomorrow and hoping this hasn't affected my BP too much as I want to ask for a HB. I really can't deal with anymore of this cr*p, just want to enjoy my newly decorated front room, spend time with our family as it is before bump arrives and I'm just feeling constantly tired, fed up, under pressure and stressed out! I don't know how long I can hold back the flood gates before I cry (too late already started now!) I'm trying ot to left DH see how upset I am but I just feel like I can't take anymore

astonsmummy

Righht I'm off, will let you all know how i get on later xxxxxxx

kathy72

astonsmummy wrote: »

Thats what I think, thats a lot of CM's aint it :eek::rotfl:

I had mine done yesterday...35cm's...due 9 days after you!!!!

Wanna do a swop?????:rotfl::D:D

Kathy x

MrsTinks

I must dig out my folder actually... I know we get tested for SOME STIs here in the bloods - and I'm vaguely hoping that the smear i had uhmmmm 4 months before falling pregnant would have been tested for chlamydia - if it wasn't do you think they would have seen anything when I had my colposcopy? Eventhough they didn't take any biopsies (due to being pregnant...)...
Hmmm Will check pregnancy notes and see what STIs they tested for me thinks before worrying too much

Oh and no I don't have any reason to think I have chlamydia - I'm just paranoid
However STIs are one of them things... I think everyone should be regularly tested anyway because it's not that difficult and it could make a huge difference to people...

Sami_Bee

ooh Claire get the council to come and get the rubbish they left (it will cost about £10 - well it does here) and make the sofa peeps pay for that too! My MIL got left all the packaging from an M&S furniture delivery and they paid this for council to pick it up and sent MIL £25 in vouchers

Don't hide your feelings from ur OH, a problem shared is a problem halved! xx

Sami_Bee

right I'm off for a shower not sure if I'll be back 2day/night as got blood tests then if I'm ok will go into town and tonight gott sort out my marriage! :rolleyes:
Hope everyone's days go well xx

Glamazon

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Don't hide your feelings from ur OH, a problem shared is a problem halved! xx

Take your own advice hun and speak to your OH.
Get it sorted out - bad vibes not good for Chris or Bubba! They pick up on these things so easily!

((((hugs))))

tarajayne

Back when DD was just 14, and I mean just, a lad started coming into their school at breaktimes, he was 18. She was quite naive and got involved in the excitement. The police at the time said he picked up young girls every few months but were powerless (I didn't agree). He stole cars, did drugs, they ran off to London, etc, etc...

It was the worst time of my life, I spent nights driving the streets looking for her and days trying to get her to school. After 2 months she was brought home by police one Sat teatime. they left and I locked the doors to keep her in, she climbed out of window and over back fence, I went running up road after her and stood in the middle while he squared up to me. I forgot how dangerous the police had said he was and thumped him in the face!!!

I went home and sat on the web and booked a break to Spain leaving the next morning, sent her a text saying when we were leaving and put the whole thing on my credit card, she turned up half hour before we left as she wouldn't miss out (we had never flown abroad before). The time away broke the drugs and the hold and it was the turning point although we did have a little trouble at the airport when I thought she was going to run off. When we got back I got into trouble for taking the kids out of school without permission, despite the fact that I had begged every agency there is for help!

This lad is now 25 and only last month my Sister who works at the school now has said he is back on the scene doing the same thing.:mad:

Now for the worst part, those of you who have been on here a while will know that my DD has been told she may not be able to have children, despite being with her OH for 4 years and being a very sensible hard working girl it seems her past has caught up with her, the damage has been caused by chlamydia. Her insides are in a terrible mess but I can't understand as we went together for all the tests when she was 16 because of what she had been through. She is devastated and is having an op in the next few weeks but one of her tubes is so bad that it has twisted itself around behind her womb. Bad things happen, to good decent families, it was like living through one of the stories you read in the paper when everyone says 'well I blame the parents'. I had the condom conversation with my DS last week, as I will my others, but at 12-13, not 16. The worst thing is I feel I let her down...

Nikabella

I've just got back from seeing the doctor who finally agreed to refer me. He rand EPAU who said they couldn't fit me in until Saturday! He said if he was worried about my physical health he could get me an earlier appointment but that he didn't think I would get an infection. I'm more worried about my mental health! We told him we could get in privately at Leeds Screening Centre tomorrow at 8.20am so just to forget it. Maybe I'm being unrealistic but I think that it's horrendous that they can leave you bleeding for up to 6 days before you get your scan, I know that if it's a mc they can't 'do' anything but I would have gone out of my mind with what if's by then.

At least if it's bad news tomorrow morning then I'm hoping I can pull myself together over the next couple of days & still have an enjoyable bank holiday weekend with my OH & DD. Having a scan in the middle of the BH weekend would just have made the whole thing a mess.

My OH is staying optimistic as I've not had any real pain or cramping & the bleeding isn't gushing (TMI sorry) like my period would be so he thinks everything will be ok. Personally I don't want to think like that as if it's bad news that will make it even more painful to hear.

I will come back & let you know how it goes. Thank you again.

A.x