OMG hes married!

Lady_E

angel4 - lets look at it another way . Wife finds out and packs his bags for him and he turns up on your doorstep at 2am in the morning as he has no where else to go . You take him in and your life changes dramatically , as this once fun,witty,kind guy turns into a selfish uncaring monster .Guess what the next thing you find out is ???????

Good luck , pick yourself up , dust yourself down and start all over again , you are so much better than him and deserve someone who loves you for you . xx

SnowyOwl_2

angel4 wrote:

if anythin else happens n this is deleted ill start another, like i said he phoned, but my phone must be dodgy ... cudnt hear wot he was sayin LOL

Sounds more like he was choking on bullsh*t. Well done on getting rid of him. He is a piece of dirt, and was treating you like dirt too.

elaine373

Stay strong Angel, we will all be watching you

funky-footprints

just caught this thread, stay strong and stay away from him too !! lots of love and strength coming your way !

Js_Other_Half

Another one who has just read all of it. Well done for being strong - he is the weak one here - he isn't enough of a man to have a REAL relationship with one woman, so he role plays through at least 2 of them...

Do let us know how you are when the dust settles?

melancholly

i guess you have to try a few bad ones to know a good one when you find one! i was in a relationship where i let myself get told what to do, and handed over control and was sweet-talked round bad behaviour..... after a while (some tears, then some throwing things, then some revenge - i really really enjoyed that bit!) i felt so much better - and would never tolerate it again!
if you feel for one tiny second that you might forgive him, post on here and we'll all shout at you

and better that you found out now, rather than investing more time with a guy like him! sending big hugs to you!

Minky2Slice

angel4 wrote:

:happylove mmm i have a feelin (DOH) that when he says hes busy driving and cant answer my call or text hes at home playin happy families. when his phone is off hes out of signal blah blah, ive started to question everything he says now.

But gawd i like him soooooo much and when we are together we are sooooo good .... but hes a liar, and i know this, but then maybe he wud choose me? for a while i guess!!

ang

Do you want to be with someone who's leading a double life? thats not the real him, he's just a conman, no matter how good you are together!!

Stay with this loser, and you are going to miss the chance to be with someone decent who would give you a whole lot more respect, honesty and REAL love than you've convinced yourself you are getting now from this pig.

Do you really wanna be with someone who's not being himself, dont you want to be with some one who wants to be with you and only you?

Im not trying to be hard on you here, but ask anyone who's been a mistress (or with someone who's "SUPPOSEDLY" seperated from their wife) he will never leave his wife/family for you, dont think that for one second...

Dont think that what you have with this guy is unique, when you find someone better, it'll be a million times better!!!

Come on girl, you deserve better!!!!

angel4_2

thanks, cant do anymore really can i... feelin rather stupid tho.. like i said, i dont meet anyone really due to not leaving house, been on my own for some 8 years so guess i got swept along with this one.. WOT A TWIT I AM

angel4_2

just to add... i do actually have a guy who sometimes helps me out with lifts etc, hes is really really nice, and he says all the things you guys say about being with rite person and it being wonderful - hes widowed, but says when he was with his wife he would never ever ever have strayed, talkin to him he sounds wonderful.... and im pretty sure hes interested in me.... but shallow that i am, he doesnt flich my switch looks wise...

maybe i need to rethink!

ginger_nuts

didnt you think it strange you had never met any off his friends or family ?
I guess you always contacted him via his mobile phone ?
didnt you ask to see his home ?
just learn from your mistake