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OMG hes married!

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  • elaine373
    elaine373 Posts: 1,427 Forumite
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    Why are you even having to ask??? He is some-ones husband!!!Its one thing when you dont know he is committed to some-one else, and another when when you do. Some women are gluttons for punishment, dont be one of them.If you carry on with the relationship then you are aiding his adultery. Dont give us the Love excuse, you will get over that.Sorry if this is harsh but you need to wake up sister!
    “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. Your really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” Lucille Ball.
  • elona
    elona Posts: 11,806 Forumite
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    Angel

    If his wife knows and is coming to see you - eek!:eek:

    Can you tell the friend who works with the wife that there is now nothing going on and that you told him to get lost?

    Hate to think of you in a slanging match or worse because that excuse for a man is a lying cheating scumbag!

    Can you tell I am in a really tactful mood ? lol?;)

    Seriously though it is not funny and it is a rotten situation for you to be in - and not a lot of fun for his wife!

    The best of luck to you both. You will need it! (I mean you and his unfortunate wife - not him!)
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  • wazza
    wazza Posts: 2,595 Forumite
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    i'd be inclined to leave a mark on him like a love bite etc which his wife must be blind not to notice and question him.

    also don't know if you should let his wife know?
    Problem with having access to internet is that i get asked by many to solve their problems :( Well at least i learn something on the way :D
  • Katgoddess
    Katgoddess Posts: 1,821 Forumite
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    angel4 wrote:
    PS.. ive just been speaking to my friend who doesnt realise what she has told me, she says she thought i knew both of them as his wife had asked for directions to MY house as she needed to visit me!!!!!!!!!! OMG SHE KNOWS DOESNT SHE?????

    Possibly :eek: Don't panic. If she was going to paint SCARLET WOMAN in big red letters on your garage door she would have done so by now.

    Sorry if you don't find that funny. It's a desperate Housewives joke :o
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  • angel4_2
    angel4_2 Posts: 43 Forumite
    wazza wrote:
    i'd be inclined to leave a mark on him like a love bite etc which his wife must be blind not to notice and question him.

    also don't know if you should let his wife know?
    now u know i should of worked that one out, i use to get, im allergic to perfume, dont wear it, and when i sprayed some in the car one day he went nuts.... know why now dont i...

    slimey toad
  • JWM
    JWM Posts: 472 Forumite
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    Just walk away.

    ‘He might choose me’ you say? Well lucky old you stuck with a lying unfaithful B’stard!

    I really feel for you hun, but he isn’t yours he is someone else’s husband . He lied to you, he lied to his wife, do you really think he going to change into a faithful man overnight? His wife couldn’t keep him, why on earth would you want to?

    You deserve so much better, and as someone else has said - NEVER steal another woman’s husband. it’s the unbreakable rule of the sisterhood, without it we’d be nothing better than….well men actually!

    Big hugs :grouphug:
  • wazza
    wazza Posts: 2,595 Forumite
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    angel4 wrote:
    now u know i should of worked that one out, i use to get, im allergic to perfume, dont wear it, and when i sprayed some in the car one day he went nuts.... know why now dont i...

    slimey toad

    hide an underwear garment in the car
    Problem with having access to internet is that i get asked by many to solve their problems :( Well at least i learn something on the way :D
  • angel4_2
    angel4_2 Posts: 43 Forumite
    rite.. i !!!!!! this... i just text him n said tarra flower.... and if your wife is callin round to see me, i shall be in till 8, or after 10 tomorrow ;-)

    SENT... DONE.... thanks yall ...... xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • angel4_2
    angel4_2 Posts: 43 Forumite
    shall i delete this thread now.... cos i suppose its not money saving, and i font want to offend anyone...
  • rach29
    rach29 Posts: 2,503 Forumite
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    Well Done!!!

    You have done the right thing & I hope you feel good about it now.

    If his wife calls tell her the truth no matter how much it will hurt her, she deserves to know who she's married to.
    Thanks to all who post comps :A :T
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