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OMG hes married!

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  • angel4_2
    angel4_2 Posts: 43 Forumite
    im glad ive done it, and if she calls i will attempt to explain, although i doubt she will listen... if he gets back to me i shall ignore him .....

    thanks everyone
  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 25,198 Forumite
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    angel4 wrote:
    shall i delete this thread now.... cos i suppose its not money saving, and i font want to offend anyone...
    You can only delete your own posts but you could PM the boardguide to ask if they would delete the thread.
  • ginger_nuts
    ginger_nuts Posts: 1,972 Forumite
    get a big packet off nappies for when he craps himself . let us know what his reply is
  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 25,198 Forumite
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    JWM wrote:
    . , without it we’d be nothing better than….well men actually!

    Big hugs :grouphug:
    sorry but this made me:rotfl:
  • angel4_2
    angel4_2 Posts: 43 Forumite
    ive had a reply to my text sayin ill ring you later, sent one back sayin dont bother i shall be out with my boyfriend.... HO HO HO HO ... its unnerving how my mood is changing lol
  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 25,198 Forumite
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    angel4 wrote:
    rite.. i !!!!!! this... i just text him n said tarra flower.... and if your wife is callin round to see me, i shall be in till 8, or after 10 tomorrow ;-)

    SENT... DONE.... thanks yall ...... xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    :T . Well done. :beer:
  • angel4_2
    angel4_2 Posts: 43 Forumite
    can i just say in all honesty, i am quite alone in this world, i am agraphobic and can only leave the house with someone else. I have no regular friends as such, just people to pass the time of day with occasionally... so i grabbed his attention when it came, fell for it, felt a narna, but wanted you guys to know you really helped me by listening and talkin thro it.... so sincere thanks... and i mean that xxxxx
  • elaine373
    elaine373 Posts: 1,427 Forumite
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    no-one is judging you, you have done the right thing, i hope you stick with it, it will be hard but i dont reckon you have any choice. All the best x
    “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. Your really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” Lucille Ball.
  • ginger_nuts
    ginger_nuts Posts: 1,972 Forumite
    if he wants to continue the relationship with you say OK .Then invite his wife round and introduce "your new friend " (his wife )to him !!! Play him at his own game !!!
  • carol_a_3
    carol_a_3 Posts: 1,104 Forumite
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    Well done. I was a cheated on wife. The first time we "tried to make a go of it" after I found out as we had 3 small children. The second time (that I knew of) that was it. I'm still on my own 4 years later but I've got my dignity back even if my self esteem is shot. We were married nearly 30 years.. If she does call round all guns blazing explain that he told you he was separated and you really didn't realise he was still married. Hopefully then you two can be on the same side.
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