Support for people with Depression

UnluckyT

hi all, hope all okay and so on.
struggling today as ive had to stay in for workmen to do stuff and had so called friends do thier usual of out birthday meal and im left out.
shouldnt let it get to me, and say something but it easier said then done. i cant seem to do right for doing wrong with them and i feel that their opinion/view of me isnt all that good for some strange reason no matter what i say/do or how i act.
i know that thier is a lot i can do for myself/id like to do and so on, but i guess it about time despite it not bieng easy that i stopped holding myself back and really tried to go for it. cant please everybody but myself i guess.

Horasio

Hi

Dunno if anyone is about but need to vent about things. I feel guilty about it in relation to what people are going through in Australia etc.

I have found things very difficult to cope with. Since the new year, the car broke down, the weather has been horrible and other minor things have been annoying me. It is fixed now but the main stress is our neighbour and their horrible shed.

When we moved here, it was quiet and private. Since he moved in, he has cut all his bushes down and has now built a horrible shed overlooking our garden. It is huge. He has been constructing it since October. He does it every Saturday and Bank Holidays from 8am till dark and my OH works in the week. I hate being driven out every Saturday by the noise. It is nowhere near finished and will hate it when it is.

We are househunting and not found anything suitable. I am so angry we are being driven out as we loved this place when we took it on:(

RonniesMummy

Hey all is anyone about?

Im in a total mess and really need someone to talk about, i am 500 overdrawn because i got myself into a total spending spree cycle, you know what its like when your on an up.

I am on 102 every fortnight ESA. I dont know what to do.

So close to ending it all today, i cant cope anymore. What do i do about the money??

sock-knitter

hi all, used to post on here ages ago, under a different user name,
well things had got better, not a lot better but enough to cope, and now things have got really really bad, been self harming, and after tonight, when some horrible things have happened, that i dont want to post on a public forum about, i feel at rock bottom again

shaz xxx

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Hi all, don't know if anyone here remembers me? I'm still in hospital, been here for 5 and a half months now.

geminilady

RonniesMummy wrote: »

Hey all is anyone about?

Im in a total mess and really need someone to talk about, i am 500 overdrawn because i got myself into a total spending spree cycle, you know what its like when your on an up.

I am on 102 every fortnight ESA. I dont know what to do.

So close to ending it all today, i cant cope anymore. What do i do about the money??

Hi sorry i missed your post when you needed to talk.I would go to see the citizens advice about the money you owe.Don't think you willl be expected to pay much back if the 102 is all you have to live on.If you think the bank will take your esa change your bank account asp and look at the debt board as you will find lots of advice on there.Above all remember its only money and not worth ending thing over!if you feel like that again plese ring the samaritans they are always there.

sock-knitter

hi rbk, i remember you, sorry to hear that your still in hospital. are u getting any better??
hugs
shaz xxx

geminilady

razorbladekisses wrote: »

Hi all, don't know if anyone here remembers me? I'm still in hospital, been here for 5 and a half months now.

Hi RBK:wave: Sorry you are in hospital and that you dont seem to have got the help you need really hope things improve for you soon.

gameshow67

hi sock knitter sorry to hear you are feeling so down but ending it all is not a solution as you said you had not been on here for a while because things got a bit better as you know we never know what tomorrow may bring things that seem so desperate now may not seem so bad in weeks to come you need to look at what ever is upsetting you so much and see what you can do to change it if you can not change it can you learn to cope with it for now till it gets better.

gameshow67

hi ronnies mummy if you check out the right hand side of the screen you will see a leaflet named mental health and debt written by martin it has all ways of dealing with debt for people who suffer deprerssion it is really helpfull and will give you lots of ideas to deal with your debt