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Weekly Flylady Thread 30th March 2009

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  • Penelope_Penguin
    Penelope_Penguin Posts: 17,242 Forumite
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    Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining room -ALL DONE :j

    Twinkly Tuesday ~ master bedroom and landing - ALL DONE :j
    Level One - done :j
    Level Two - done :j
    [strike]Wash the windows[/strike]
    [STRIKE]Clear the landing of gibble[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Vacuum the floors.. and the mattress before remaking the bed[/STRIKE]
    Level Three - done :j
    [STRIKE]Dust and deweb
    Wipe any grotty paintwork and furniture[/STRIKE]

    [strike]Check those smoke alarms![/strike]
    Extras
    1. Binbag dance
    2. 15 minutes filing
    3. fill a binbag of old winter stuff for charity shop!!
    4. Thoroughly clean the cupboard full of tins!
    5. Wipe a shelf or 3 and staighten all the stuff on them.
    Wednesday Wonders ~ Cruddy Study & Bathrooms
    Level One - done :j
    [STRIKE]Declutter floors!
    Mop/vacuum/sweep floors[/STRIKE]

    Level Two
    Scrub tiles while running a defrag
    Clean the bath, basins, shower trays and loo's
    Degrot the desk and dust and polish the monitor and pc case etc
    Level Three - done :j
    [STRIKE]Wash windows
    Wash bath mats/shower curtains etc
    Collect all the laundry from upstairs[/STRIKE]

    Extras
    1. Empty and wash out bins
    2. [STRIKE]Wipe all the sofas/chairs inthese rooms[/STRIKE]
    3. [STRIKE]Wipe paintwork in these rooms[/STRIKE]
    4. Clear and wipe a shelf or two
    Thursdays are Thrilling!! - Living room, hallway, stairs!!
    Level One
    Declutter the floors!
    Vacuum/mop floors & stairs!
    Level Two
    Wash the windows and the front door.. inside and out!
    [STRIKE]Vacuum under the furniture you can safely move!
    Clean the sofas[/STRIKE]

    Level Three
    Declutter the inside of a cupboard or drawer!
    Wipe all the paintwork!
    Dust mantle and polish all the trinkets upon it.. and get all the junk off it!
    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]Wipe and water the plants[/STRIKE]
    2. [STRIKE]Clean out the pets[/STRIKE]
    3. [STRIKE]Wash any smelly soft furnishings[/STRIKE]
    4. Get a pile of filing done!!
    :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
  • AlwaysHappy
    AlwaysHappy Posts: 1,506 Forumite
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    I know exactly what you mean - my DH used to leave his dirty clothes wher ever he had taken them off and expect to have them cleaned and ironed and back in the drawer (this is what his mum used to do). He soon learned that if it's not in the wash basket it won't get washed! He doesn't like the idea of running out of undies so he's quite good at putting his clothes in the wash basket!
    Do you want him to do his washing entirely seperate from yours? Might be an idea to have a talk with him about what you want him to do around the place!
    I'm on a roll, so going to tackle the LR now! It's a tip!
    I took exactly the same tack with my oh (and my son), if it isn't in the wash it doesn't get washed! I'm not their skivvy.
    The thread is too long to read at the moment, I didn't catch up with it yesterday so I've about 20 pages to read, will sit down with a cup of tea later but oh is wanting the computer now. Hope you are all having productive days, hugs to those in need.
    I'm not a failure if I don't make it, I'm a success because I :tried!
  • kazwookie
    kazwookie Posts: 14,277 Forumite
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    Ok I am here, for all those who have missed me!!

    Been a bit busy today.

    Fed cats
    Fed myself
    Watered seedlings
    Spent the day at work

    Hugs all round

    Hi to the newbies

    Off to read
    Breast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
    D- Day 80km June 2024 80/80km (10.06.24 all done)
    Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2024 to complete by end Sept 2024. 1,001,066/ 1,000,000 (20.09.24 all done)
    Breast Cancer Now 100 miles 1st May 2025 (18.05.2025 all done)
    Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2025 to complete by end Sept 2025. 504,789 / 1,000,000
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  • soappie
    soappie Posts: 6,794 Forumite
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    soappie - if there is something on the list that doesn't need doing then I substitue for another task - clean the lampshades? polish a piece of furniture? wipe the outside of your window sills?

    What an excellent idea Dusty - I shall think of something - anything to get out of washing down the woodwork again! PS - hope your cold is getting better. And I hope the funeral went well.

    Pigpen - big, big hugs love - what a megabucket of issues for you to deal with all at once. Sending you a big, big squishy hug and putting on my 1980s shoulder padding for you to sob on if you wish xx

    Maralum - how the devil are you?

    Welcome Reef

    Valli - nice one with the extra hour:D

    Rose - hugs - hope you're feeling better v. soon

    Well the trip to the vets went relatively smoothly. With the aid of the vet, an assistant and some gravy bones, we finally managed to get the stitches out of BB but it took about 10 minutes! She was a bit traumatised going there again but is OK now. The lump was an "Infundibular keratinising acanthoma" (almost an IKEA but not quite! :D) - something to do with hair folicles and stuff....

    Beautiful evening again so the dog and I sat out in the garden for a bit catching some rays before the sun went behind next door.

    I am now going to attend to some emails, pay my gas and elec bills then tackle today's list.
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • hex2
    hex2 Posts: 4,736 Forumite
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    At the risk of being contraversial (sp? - spot the person who went to the pub for tea) and just in case Phil and OJK are too scared to post, I think the point we are making is why do people assume one person will do it - not necessarily the female! I have to plead guilty to doing nothing with my first DH, and moaning if he didn't iron the right stuff -I did the toilets and cooked (very badly tbh) - he did everything else. You have to make a choice and stick to it. When DH2 and I met and agreed to have children we discussed hat we both wanted and expected going forward, and what we agreed was that I would be the main child care provider, that he would pay the mortgage so that I could stay at home and that as the person who had the most time I would do the majority of the boring house stuff. We trade off each others skills, I organise stuff, he does the most amazingly practical stuff that I just cant do. It works for us. When it starts to fall down is when one gets resentful of the other and it all gets horrible. I got upset for a while and it did us no favours. It took A n W's mum to give me a sense of perspective - however annoying and untidy he is I couldn't stand it if I lost him (sorry if this upsets you AnW). You either accept things as they are or you explain how you feel and what you are asking for in a way in which the other people understand and make things change. Life is just too short. Sorry, I don't mean to upset anyone with this, just trying to explain how I (mostly) cope with someone who never, ever lifts a finger.

    Still not done any flying, but must get on or we will be in CHAOS tomorrow when it just isn't an option. ....Hyperventilates quietly......
    'If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need' Marcus Tullius Cicero
  • kazwookie
    kazwookie Posts: 14,277 Forumite
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    Pigpen thinking of you.
    Breast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
    D- Day 80km June 2024 80/80km (10.06.24 all done)
    Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2024 to complete by end Sept 2024. 1,001,066/ 1,000,000 (20.09.24 all done)
    Breast Cancer Now 100 miles 1st May 2025 (18.05.2025 all done)
    Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2025 to complete by end Sept 2025. 504,789 / 1,000,000
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  • soappie
    soappie Posts: 6,794 Forumite
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    Oh, and as we're going down at 10pm tomorrow night, don't forget Froddington has organised a
    Flylady Southern Meet - Saturday 4th April
    (all flyladies and gents welcome)

    The plan is to meet at The Foresters Arms in Brockenhurst

    http://www.newforestonline.biz/forestersarms/

    Brockenhurst is less than 15 minutes from Southampton on the train, so it's not far and will be easier for those driving to park!

    If any of you planning on joining in, PM me and I'll send you my mobile phone number in case you get lost/shy
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • witchypoo
    witchypoo Posts: 461 Forumite
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    Thanks toots for your kind wishes for my OH today :) and everyone else who mentioned it. It went really well, they took ten biopsies and found his UC extends all the way around the whole of his Colon. They also found a small polyp which was removed. Next step, wait for results of biopsies and for them to decide what meds next. I am hoping no more steroids after they were such a waste of time last time for such a lot of worry when he was coming off them (terrible mood swings) and worrying about more weight gain while he was on them. Anyway it's done now and we even managed to cancel our lift home and get the bus! Only after I grilled him on whether he was really feeling perfectly fine or not lol.

    I have done no flying over the past day or so, I feel quite bad about that but will try and get some done later and tomorrow. I have also not been eating properly :o but resuming normally from this moment on (after my chinese I ate earlier hehe).

    List for catch-up:

    Magnificent Monday - Kitchen and dining roomDONE!
    Extras
    1. Thoroughly clean the cupboard full of tins!
    2. Run the WM's and DW's through a clean cycle
    3. Clean all the filters and door seals etc
    4. Wipe a shelf or 3 and staighten all the stuff on them

    Twinkly Tuesday ~ master bedroom and landing
    Level One
    clear the floordrobe
    Level Two
    Wash the windows
    Vacuum the floors.. and the mattress before remaking the bed
    Level Three
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe any grotty paintwork and furniture
    Check those smoke alarms!
    Extras
    1. Binbag dance
    2. 15 minutes filing
    3. fill a binbag of old winter stuff for charity shop!!
    Wednesday Wonders ~ Cruddy Study & Bathrooms
    Level Two
    Scrub tiles while running a defrag
    Degrot the desk and dust and polish the monitor and pc case etc
    Level Three
    Wash windows
    Extras

    1. Wipe paintwork in these rooms
    2. Clear and wipe a shelf or two
    Thursdays are Trilling!! - Living pit, hallway, stairs!!
    Level One
    Declutter the floors!
    Vacuum/mop floors & stairs!
    Level Two
    Wash the windows and the front door.. inside and out!
    Vacuum under the furniture you can safely move!
    Clean the sofas
    Level Three
    Wipe all the paintwork!
    Dust mantle and polish all the trinkets upon it.. and get all the junk off it!
    Extras
    1. Wipe and water the plants
    2. Clean out the pets
    3. Wash any smelly soft furnishings
    4. Get a pile of filing done!!
    IAAR/IAAMM/MFTMFAQ/IOA6BH
  • emily_jackson
    emily_jackson Posts: 1,695 Forumite
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    Here's what I've done so far:

    Wednesday Wonders-Cruddy Study/Spare room & Bathroom
    Level 1
    [STRIKE]Declutter SOME of study/spare room (I know I will not get this done in 1 day)[/STRIKE]
    Sweep/mop bathroom floor
    Level 2
    Wipe round in bathroom
    Other
    [STRIKE]
    Shower
    Go into village
    Trixy
    Check emails
    Wrap great nephew's present & write card
    [/STRIKE]

    Dishes
    [STRIKE]Laundry[/STRIKE]

    Will report back later
  • No flying today, too fed up. DH has done something unspeakably dumb.
    aaaaaarrrrrggggghhhhhhhh

    God bless, Pigpen.

    REEF Hi!

    Flylady Flower I have sent you a pm about your lad, hope is ok

    Its true, it isn't just the fellas who are capable of "taking for granted"...
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
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