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Pregnant and Hubby doesnt love me

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  • weel it's my birthday today and feel really good... slept well as Alfie was an angel (second night alone but stayed at mums) woke for feeds and was quiet during nappy changes, then went straight back to sleep after...

    ex saw his son for an hour yesterday and changed a nappy, only wet, but it's a start... was painful to watch!

    off to a nearly new sale with my mum and a friend in a bit... my first so should be an experience...
    :male:Alfie Sidney born 29th August 2009:male:
  • twinklie
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    Awww...fitz. You should be sooooooo proud of yourself. You are amazing. Well done honey. Alfie is going to be so proud of his mummy. ((hugs))
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  • jha
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    :bdaycake:HAPPY BIRTHDAY FITZ :bdaycake:
  • harley1
    harley1 Posts: 1,350 Forumite
    Happy Birthday Fitz, Hope you and Alfie have a fantastic day

    xxxxx
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    Very proud mummy to Gorgeous baby girl - 29/09/09 :j

    Thanks to all who directed me to Quidco - £289.30 since Nov 09 :beer:
  • Jo4
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    Happy 23rd birthday Fitz! :bdaycake:
  • tizhimi
    tizhimi Posts: 457 Forumite
    Wow I've just read this top to tail. You are some gal.

    Happy birthday, congraulations on the birth and by heckers girl you can face anything the world throws at you!
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  • msb5262
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    Another one popping in to say Happy Birthday - I really hope you're proud of yourself, because everyone on this thread is INCREDIBLY PROUD of you. What an amazing young woman you are...hope you've had a good day.
    MsB x
  • feeling proud of Alfie... put on 10oz in a week!

    been feeding pretty much all night... but then he poops as soon as he stops, making space so then demands more food! joys of motherhood i suppose!


    had a few tears yesterday - mum and my sister both wrote special little notes in my birthday cards and mum snuck out to get a card from Alfie and a couple of photo frames with 'number 1 mummy' and 'me and my mummy' on them...

    love my family.. we've been through a lot over the last couple of years and it's really made us stronger and closer...
    :male:Alfie Sidney born 29th August 2009:male:
  • ive just come accross this thread, and like you fitz,my partner left me when i was was pregnant and i know what you were going through. ive read your thread from start to finish and found it very moving. alfie looks so gorgeous and very contented!
    ;)
  • Hi sweetie

    just to let you know that Im another one who has been lurking since day 1 and am sooo happy for you as you seem to have really turned a corner. For what it is worth , I think you are amazingly strong...and it goes without saying that Alfie is scrumptious.

    Anyway, on a practical note, and I know that you have been pretty busy, but have you sorted out your benefits or tax credits entitlements yet....they only backdate for 93 days so you have a bit of time left but as soon as you claim then the sooner you get paid. This is where I can kinda help seeing as you are soo special. I am *in the know* re tax credits in particular so if you have any queries please do PM me.

    Thanks

    Ms Bobs xx
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