how can we compromise? i want traditional he wants minimal.

sunshinejoclaire

I get the impression PPK had the hat before they decided to get married!

PPK - I'd comprimise by wearing something else down the aisle, after all you won't be able to see yourself, but he will! [I used this logic when picking the Mr's outfit lol]. Then as you say you can have some pics done with the hat, and some done without

I have to say - I tend not to wear clothes my man hates when I am going anywhere with him, as I like him to like the way I look. I save them for work, so going out with girlfiends instead

poet123

sunshinejoclaire wrote: »

I get the impression PPK had the hat before they decided to get married!

PPK - I'd comprimise by wearing something else down the aisle, after all you won't be able to see yourself, but he will! [I used this logic when picking the Mr's outfit lol]. Then as you say you can have some pics done with the hat, and some done without

I have to say - I tend not to wear clothes my man hates when I am going anywhere with him, as I like him to like the way I look. I save them for work, so going out with girlfiends instead

I bet we all know a couple of those;)

prettypoppyknickers

poet123 wrote: »

Your big mistake was showing the hat to him upfront........

i had the hat before we were together. it was always going to be my wedding hat.

i've comprimised by not wearing it for the wedding and having a church instead.

if stopped wearing all the clothes i had i'd just be a black blob.

anything frilly, lacey he hates. they are my fav items.

blonde36er

nat82 wrote: »

These are my shoes! I love them SOOOOOOOOO much! They aren't ivory though, more of a champagne colour when you see them but I don't care!

xxx

They're my wedding shoes too...love at first sight so does exist :rotfl:

moneysaver12

I love the hat. I think that you should wear what you want. My htb left it up to me what i wear.

clairej168

blonde36er wrote: »

If you want to wear the hat, wear the hat! He's hardly going to do anything about it when his gorgeous bride is heading down the aisle to him

Have you seen these shoes?

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Ooooooh my bridesmaids are having those in silver :T

Sorry just got all excited there!

OP you look gorgeous in the hat and its lovely x x x

shellsuit

If my fiance dictated to me what to wear/what not to wear on my wedding day, there would be no wedding day! Cheeky git!

P.S. Those shoes are gorgeous!

sunshinejoclaire

poet123 wrote: »

I bet we all know a couple of those;)

damn my typing :rotfl:

gill_81uk

wow I love those shoes! Already have my wedding shoes but they would go lovely with a dress I've just bought for a friend's wedding in August. me thinks a trip to Next is in order!!

Tigerlilley1980

I'm sorry to say this honey, but for a start he has no right to tell you what you can and cannot wear. It seems to me that he is quite controlling, why don't you turn roun and say you won't marry him if he wears trainers. I am only saying this because I have been with a man before who controlled everything I did, down to what I wore. Thankfully I am not with him now and am with a man who fully respects me and couldn't give a damn which dress I wear because at the end of the day he is getting to marry me.

If this is still going ahead, why not have black and white tables, centrepieces, favours and a cake. I would put my foot down on the trainers thing though. Maybe he will turn to look at you as you walk down the aisle and think you are stunning in whatever you wear, Tiger xx