how can we compromise? i want traditional he wants minimal.

shelovestobuystuff

You are gorgeous and the hat is perfect on you.

nementai

Fab hat, are you going to have some short white gloves too? They'd look so stylish and fit with a 50s look.
Glad you've talked it all through, and good luck with the rest of the prep.
I'm nearing 5 months till my wedding, and it's crazy, but luckily my H2B doesn't care much about anything wedding related!
I found a quote which sums us up completely:

I dreamed of a wedding of elaborate elegance,
A church filled with family and friends.
I asked him what kind of a wedding he wished for,
He said one that would make me his wife

prettypoppyknickers

[quote=[Deleted User];19848145]Out of interest, where'd u get the user name from?

Is your name poppy?

Is poppy a colour (like red) and refers to your choice of underwear or something ????? :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:[/quote]

my name isn't poppy although it does begin with P

and the poppy knickers is regarding when i was about 2 i had a pair of knickers with poppy's all over it and use to show them to everyone and my mother decided to call me poppyknickers.

that is the story of my name.

and thank you all for the replys about my hat and i shall have a look at the links in a moment

speak soon x

Ianna

The hat is an absolute winner!! Definitely wear it.

prettypoppyknickers

thank you

prettypoppyknickers

update!

he really really hates the hat still so i said the one thing i want more than the hat is a church so he is letting me have a church!!!

and i shall sneak the hat in for photos with my bridesmaids when he is not about!

he said he doesn't care what veil i have so hehehe the fun shall begin!

blonde36er

If you want to wear the hat, wear the hat! He's hardly going to do anything about it when his gorgeous bride is heading down the aisle to him

Have you seen these shoes?

http://www.next.co.uk/shot.asp?extra=sch&b=X43&p=2096&s=14&n=Women&pid=445-227&exclude=00E00%7c00ED00&returnurl=http%3a%2f%2fsearch%2enext%2eco%2euk%2fsearch%3fp%3dQ%26lbc%3dnext%26uid%3d641687282%26ts%3dv7%26w%3ddragonfly%2520shoes%26af%3d%26isort%3dscore%26method%3dand%26filter%3dsubset%253a1907%26nxtv%3d0%26nxti%3d0&bct=%26quot%3bdragonfly%20shoes%26quot%3b

prettypoppyknickers

:eek: they are so beautiful i hope they go with my dresses!

i shall buy these on monday!

you really dont know the passion he has for hating this hat hehe.

poet123

Your big mistake was showing the hat to him upfront........

nat82

blonde36er wrote: »

Have you seen these shoes?

http://www.next.co.uk/shot.asp?extra=sch&b=X43&p=2096&s=14&n=Women&pid=445-227&exclude=00E00%7c00ED00&returnurl=http%3a%2f%2fsearch%2enext%2eco%2euk%2fsearch%3fp%3dQ%26lbc%3dnext%26uid%3d641687282%26ts%3dv7%26w%3ddragonfly%2520shoes%26af%3d%26isort%3dscore%26method%3dand%26filter%3dsubset%253a1907%26nxtv%3d0%26nxti%3d0&bct=%26quot%3bdragonfly%20shoes%26quot%3b

These are my shoes! I love them SOOOOOOOOO much! They aren't ivory though, more of a champagne colour when you see them but I don't care!

xxx