Avoiding payments

Loopy_Girl

speedster wrote: »

blimey. your PWC sounds a bit loopy!

Heh heh....every time....:rotfl:

It's just getting too easy now!!!:D

bdt1

There's no BIT about it

But she is the mother of my husbands 2 DD, no-one except Blonde Bint (I think) would believe the tactics, games, awful scenario's, threats, nasty letters, awful phone calls, twisted things this PWC has put us through, and it's not as if we only met. I have been with my husband for 17 years now! To add, I was no scarlet woman, he and the PWC had been separated for some time when he asked me out, I didn't even know he had children until a few weeks into our relationship!

All I'm trying to say is to any newcomer, lots of us on here, whether PWC, NRP, or NRPP etc have had/are having unbelieveable experiences due to circumstances with ex partners and the CSA. In my experience the CSA are not to be relied upon, they are inefficient, and having won a Tribunal 3 weeks ago, proving the 34k CCJ they say my hubs owes his PWC is a farce, is just for starters, apart from the charge on my house for the same amount, the LO for the same amount and the bailiffs we had knocking on our door last years for the same amount!! The CSA can be bullies and audits have proven a huge % of their assessments, and associated enforcement action, are incorrect.

Not trying to scare any newbies at all Loopy Girl, just trying to from the outset, get anyone dealing with this organisation to cross their t's, dot i's , cover their backs, and make sure they keep, and copy all documentation etc etc.

Unfortunately not all of us have sane, unbitter (is that a real word?) PWC, after 17 years you would think/hope ours had moved on , but no!

Loopy_Girl

Ah bdt you have clearly missed !!!!!! 'sly' (read infantile) dig at other posters *yawn*

Your PWC does sound like a 'mare:eek: Unfortunately a large majority - even those who claim to be educated and knowledgable in CSA matters (and Daily Mail readers!!) - assume that all are like yours and BB's.

bdt1

Just to add, also as a PWC, I would never have put either my children, nor the NRP through any of the things my husbands PWC has done, as said before, my aim was always to keep my children in a stable, loving environment, and my NRP was a bit of a *** at times - he didn't want to pay - or at least the minimum if he had to.

But in all of this, I would never have written letters to his new partner threatening things, I would not have assualted his partner , I would not have moved without telling the NRP where I was going, I would not have changed my name without telling NRP, I would not have photographed my NRP'S 2nd family outside school, the list is endless, but I won't go on, previous posts from us say it all, we have won our Tribunal case, and now CSA will have to pay us financial redress big time, but anyway, Loopy Girl I agree many men may avoid CS, my husband has never done so, always paid, but unfortunately with our PWC, no matter what figure he paid, it would never be a high enough price for eventually leaving her - not the children!! Even if it is 17 years on, she always said she would destroy he and me.

Loopy_Girl

Okay bd1...am getting the gist that you have had a crappy time...but there is no reason to suggest that the PWC in the other thread is going to go the same way.

Keeping a note of all corre from/to CSA is a good idea but I'm still struggling why he has to get a new phone!!! It's a rhetorical question btw!!

I have followed your story and would like to think that yours is an exception to the rule as oppose to the norm.

bdt1

Lets hope so, would hate my worst enemy to go through what we been through

speedster

exception??

yeah right. what fluffy cockoo land do you live in?

Loopy_Girl

bdt1 wrote: »

Lets hope so, would hate my worst enemy to go through what we been through

LOL @ comment on other thread 'I'm no bunny'!!!!!:rotfl::rotfl:

I hope things get sorted for you soon....17 years...man, now THAT is bitter and twisted!! 2 decades of hate..no need

bdt1

I hope things get sorted for you soon....17 years...man, now THAT is bitter and twisted!! 2 decades of hate..no need[/QUOTE]


Exactly not healthy for her - or us to say the least, never mind the effect, overheard coversations etc on those poor children, she on timeline now only a few months to go, so see what,!

HeatherH

hmm thread-jacked much?