Black Dog of Depression - can we help each other?

meg72

dlm wrote: »

How old are you CG?

I am 35 and have not had children for various reasons.

One of the reasons is my health.

Tell your hubby that you will have his baby as long as he knows that he will probably end up looking after you both.

If he can cope with the pressure have the baby.

It might give you a reason to live x x

No sorry dont want to cause distress but you dont have a baby to give you a reason to live. My Son had two beautiful boys but he thought they were better off without him and he left, Better that they had never been
born than the agony he has left them in.

crazy_girl

rbk- im glad that youre safe and i hope that the activities will pick up again soon x any idea when youll be home?

crazy_girl

meg72 wrote: »

No sorry dont want to cause distress but you dont have a baby to give you a reason to live. My Son had two beautiful boys but he thought they were better off without him and he left, Better that they had never been
born than the agony he has left them in.

thats exactly why hubby needs to be free to find someone who can make him a dad

pipkin71

crazy_girl wrote: »

thats exactly why hubby needs to be free to find someone who can make him a dad

The thing is though cg, you're still young enough to put the idea of babies aside for a while. You don't know how long you will feel like this. It doesn't have to be a lifetime. Maybe this time next year, you will be in a better place and want to share a baby with your OH.

What you mustn't do is push him away, when it is obvious he wants to be with you.

meg72

crazy_girl wrote: »

thats exactly why hubby needs to be free to find someone who can make him a dad

No No sweetheart, you are in ain and not thinking. He loves you and wants to be with you. Hes full grown adult and can make his own
mind u. He is with you because thats where he wants to be, otherwise he would have walked. lease sweet taalk to him and beleive the answers he gives you.

Best wishes Mary

crazy_girl

i suppose youre right, im just so down on myself that i cant see what on earth anyone would see in me, i wouldnt want to be my friend

meg72

crazy_girl wrote: »

.....who isnt nuts as

Nuts as what sweetie, My Son was nuts as.? He was adorable, The whole family are just devasted He thought he was a burden but surely that should have been our choice, we could have walked away if we felt that we never did. We loved him and wanted him as your husband loves and wants you. lease dont think you are a burden until someone tells you so

Dam my keyboard wont let me ut the missing letter in and for somereason
although I can rely I cannot make a new ost or send a M . anyone have
any sujjestions. I know the missing letter is the keyboard but dont know why I cannot make a new ost

meg72

crazy_girl wrote: »

i suppose youre right, im just so down on myself that i cant see what on earth anyone would see in me, i wouldnt want to be my friend

I would want to be your friend you sound quite lovely, caring unselfish
and utting husbands needs before your own. Yes definitely I would want to be your friend.

crazy_girl

i can see how much youre hurting from the way you type, i dont want to do that to anyone if i can help it

Sugar_Coated_Owl

I've been discharged. How I don't know, because I'm still a danger to myself and I was honest and told them how I really felt. I guess they don't care really.