Black Dog of Depression - can we help each other?

sandy71

Rachal021967 Your post has gone now but I did read it and am sending you hugs. Hope you are all ok.

Had a huge row with hubby because of me being a miserable cow and I told him if he disliked me that much then he should go. He said he would then stormed out. I don't know where he is and I won't be able to cope on my own. I'm so scared.

pipkin71

sandy71 wrote: »

Rachal021967 Your post has gone now but I did read it and am sending you hugs. Hope you are all ok.

Had a huge row with hubby because of me being a miserable cow and I told him if he disliked me that much then he should go. He said he would then stormed out. I don't know where he is and I won't be able to cope on my own. I'm so scared.

I wonder if the post was removed by admin, due to the poster saying what they felt like doing.

Hopefully your hubby will be home soon, once he's cooled off.

It must be really difficult for both of you.

Try not to worry

Rachel021967

Thanks Mixed up, Sandy and Pipkin. Sorry you had a row with your husband, hopefully he just needs to cool off. Life must be tough for you both. Have you been to your GP to review your medication and ask for help. He might refer you to social services who could offer practical help. They will not take your kids away.

pipkin71

Hope you're feeling ok Rachel

System

sandy71 wrote: »

Rachal021967 Your post has gone now but I did read it and am sending you hugs. Hope you are all ok.

Had a huge row with hubby because of me being a miserable cow and I told him if he disliked me that much then he should go. He said he would then stormed out. I don't know where he is and I won't be able to cope on my own. I'm so scared.

I've had a smilar argument with my bf on a number of occasions (including last week where he went home to his rents cos he couldn't "deal with me"). He probably just needs time to cool off, then hopefully he'll be back hun. Stay on here and talk to us, that way you're not "on your own" so to speak hun.

*hugs for all*

crazy_girl

sandy71 wrote: »

Rachal021967 Your post has gone now but I did read it and am sending you hugs. Hope you are all ok.

Had a huge row with hubby because of me being a miserable cow and I told him if he disliked me that much then he should go. He said he would then stormed out. I don't know where he is and I won't be able to cope on my own. I'm so scared.

hes probably just done a 'my hubby' and gone off somewhere quiet to chill out for a bit.

crazy_girl

Rachel021967 wrote: »

Thanks Mixed up, Sandy and Pipkin. Sorry you had a row with your husband, hopefully he just needs to cool off. Life must be tough for you both. Have you been to your GP to review your medication and ask for help. He might refer you to social services who could offer practical help. They will not take your kids away.

sorry i didnt see your post but ive got an idea what you were saying, mine were removed too on that topic.

all i can say is that i know exactly how that feels and im here to 'listen'

System

Think it must be fairly common. Its just their way of dealing with it. And it is "it" they find hard to deal with, not you/us.

crazy_girl

sorry that so mnay of us are feeling so bad

ive been trying to post a bit more on other threads liek grabbit or freebies but i keep getting it wrong and embarrassing myself

crazy_girl

yeah, theyre cross at the illness not at the sufferer