cananyone help

arcunebera

thanks a lot you spiteful person.
i hope you never have to deal with this sort of situation.
god help any other people wanting help.

TotallyBroke

Ok you may be a troll then again you may not.
But you do sound like a very controlling or insecure person to be reading her internet history and posts that she has put on here.
She may well have more than one mse account. One that you have found and one that she uses more. You could be a complete bully or violent to her which is why she has left you. Maybe she chooses not to speak to her Mum in case you go there and start intimidating her for information.

I seriously suggest that you leave her alone and stop prying into her personal information.

arcunebera

TotallyBroke wrote: »

Ok you may be a troll then again you may not.
But you do sound like a very controlling or insecure person to be reading her internet history and posts that she has put on here.
She may well have more than one mse account. One that you have found and one that she uses more. You could be a complete bully or violent to her which is why she has left you. Maybe she chooses not to speak to her Mum in case you go there and start intimidating her for information.

I seriously suggest that you leave her alone and stop prying into her personal information.

yes, i'm just texting her to say i love her and hope she is ok, her sisters are doing the same.
She probably has got a main ID otherwise why would she post on here and not a main forum she is always on.
She left a very violent relationship years before we met and we have never had any problems.
She is very independant from this and I would never dreamof controllngg anyone.

I guess I am just desperate to hear that she is ok,even just a text to her mum. Popping into a police station and saying she's ok does not mean she is.

Her family are in Wales, miles from me and I have to go to work.

shellsuit

If this is genuine, for all those berating the OP for texting/calling/posting/searching history etc, have you ever been in the same situation, where your partner dissappears (for over 24 hours or more) and you don't have a clue where they are or what kind of state they are in?

I have and I did exactly the same as the OP.

He's not being nosey, or controlling, or sneaky or acting like a stalker, he's just trying to find an answer to why she has gone and not let him know.

Until he gets an answer, I think he should keep digging and delving ~ it's not something you can just forget about and carry on with ordinary day to day stuff.

Mely

Shell...the op is typing and spelling in exactly the same way as his 'oh'...go figure! I didnt want to post in this thread again, and i wont. I just hate trolls...especially not good ones! Cant he get his kicks some other way without wasting peoples time on here?

MissMotivation

The mis-spelling of the word anonymous was the giveway.....i'm sorry but both those posts were written by the same person, they were written in the same way etc.

You need help and I hope you get it soon!

ladypinkof66

i have been trying to look for the oh post however did you find it ?

Savvy_Sue

I've asked abuse to take a look at this thread, meanwhile I'm not sure there's a lot more we can say apart from if you love her, keep looking after her cats for her.