cananyone help

Mely

Shes only made one post here, so we only know whats on that. Perhaps people in the other forum that know you both may be able to help you? I dont know what more advice can be given, than already has been here.

arcunebera

galvanizersbaby wrote: »

Having just read through her post perhaps you should back off and give her a bit of space.

sorry gal, can you delete her user id.
a poster on here was right. i should not have posted it.
im just worried,
she's not been online anywhere since sat am, not on her facebook or posted on other forums which is unusual but then she probably doesnt have acees to a computer

agscully

arcunebera wrote: »

sorry, i was editing her user id
she left last saturday, i was at work, came home and she had gone

You mean this saturday just gone the 10th Jan ?? Why were you editing her user id ?

Sian_the_Green

arcunebera, I am sorry if this is all genuine, just seemed a little weird.
If it is then I wouldn't be looking at this site for answers, someone who was only on here once is unlikely to be hanging around here too much. I think people are a little harsh in saying just to leave her alone as I am sure you are very distressed but I think as she has left the one thing she cares about most as you say, her cats, and her phone charger she is unlikely to have totally moved out, she will need her things at some point. Unfortunately there is little you can do, in terms of joint money, paying bills etc maybe you need to be looking at the practical side of this and getting on with day to day things until it is easier and things become clearer

arcunebera

i'm a bit worried to as we are known on there whilst we are anonamous on here, well for me and I'd be surprised if anyone knew her by her ID on here as this site is not one come accross.

arcunebera

agscully wrote: »

You mean this saturday just gone the 10th Jan ?? Why were you editing her user id ?

taking her user id out of my post.
I don't have access to her account on here

Mely

People on the other forum must know you both better than here surely? They might be able to help you.

Triggles

I think people are a little harsh in saying just to leave her alone as I am sure you are very distressed

I understand you may think it is harsh, but it is simply realistic. He has said a couple times he was looking to see if she met someone online. Not once has he stated he was worried that she might harm herself or something like that. Just says he's "worried" which is open to interpretation. Sorry, but while he may be distressed, if he genuinely cares for her, he will realise that obviously she may be distressed as well and may need a little space. Hunting her down and harrassing her is not going to help the situation. The police have verified that she is okay. He needs to back off.

I, too, have concerns over whether this is genuine. We've had a lot of trolls lately. *sigh* But what can ya do?

agscully

Had she spoken to you about her worries about your relationship which she mentioned in her post ?

arcunebera

im on 2 others right now, posting between them all.
Im watching this one as she's obviously created an id and posted specificall from reading it.

I know she's unlikely to come on but I can't stop checking.
I want to leave a message on there but something is telling me no and just keep sending odd text message.

she has no money, no friends in manchester which is miles away/