cananyone help

arcunebera

the other sites she has visted is consumeractiongroup which we used to sort out money problems.

all the computer is the same, she hasn't deleted anything except change password

the police are not interested in passing a message to her asking her to contact me which is fair enough and her mum does not know where she is which i believe.

arcunebera

i don't think she said much, her mum sent her a text asking her to contact police to say she is ok if she did not want to speak to any of us.
the police rang her mum yesterday saying she went into a police station in manchester saying se is ok, gave id to show it was her then left.

Triggles

I think it's fair to say she knows you are looking for her. But as you know she is okay and seems to not want to contact you at the moment, you might want to consider just backing off and giving her some space. You know she's ok now.

arcunebera

ive found her user id and found her posting. she has typed on this website!!!!

Triggles

Ok, by doing this, you are straying into bad territory. Do you really think digging through her stuff is a good idea? She may not thank you for it.

Sian_the_Green

Hi, this sounds really horrible to me, for her to go missing like that. If you think she has been on here do you know what her login is? If you do you could search to see if she has posted on here. As far as I can see this isn't the type of site that someone meets someone on and runs away... If you have been together for 5 years do you not have her mother's number to talk to her?

arcunebera

i havent gone through anything on the computer except webste history as was looking to see if shes met someone online as thats how we met.
we each have locked folders for private stuff but I did look in her general folder as we've always done for each other and found she had joined the site.
it says her user id in an email.
we've always been open with each other as although private to most people we trust each other.

she has posted on here whih i found from doing a search on her user name.

I am very very worried now and am not sure what to do.

arcunebera

i have spoken to her mum, and sisters. i get on well with all of them and we are all worried.

tinkerbell84

did she post a lot?

about her feelings or about money?

are there clues in her post(s) that she was unhappy?

galvanizersbaby

arcunebera wrote: »

i havent gone through anything on the computer except webste history as was looking to see if shes met someone online as thats how we met.
we each have locked folders for private stuff but I did look in her general folder as we've always done for each other and found she had joined the site.
it says her user id in an email.
we've always been open with each other as although private to most people we trust each other.

she has posted on here whih i found from doing a search on her user name.

I am very very worried now and am not sure what to do.

This isn't a dating site - it's a moneysaving site.
What worries you so much about what she has posted?