cananyone help

agscully

arcunebera wrote: »

while i do appreciate what you are saying yu don't seem to have realised that the computer is shared and the hitory is a combination from both of ours. i was not looking through private emails but a general email folder we share.

Im not sure how this is helping anyway.

I just need to make sure she is ok and I don't believe she is.
She also has no money and the joint account iss untouched

You have previously stated that the police have told you she is ok , if she was not ok they would of told you .

Mely

I also dont understand why she joined the site, to make one post. If its genuine i apologise.

arcunebera

Sian_the_Green wrote: »

This is all a little weird to me, I am not sure I am fully convinced by this, if this is genuine and you are genuine I wouldn't be on here looking as she has only one post, you don't blab all that stuff out on a site you are not registered on for more than a day... Just a thought

I post a lot on two forums but not been on here, she also uses two others on which I am not revealling anything. We are known as regular posters and a a couple on those but this site is new to me.

I have just registered after finding the email as wanted to see if I could find anything.

Whilst I appreciate your response its not particularly helpful - all I want to do is find out whats happened and now Ive found her post Ive saved it.

I just want her home.
So do her cats.
thank you for responses given on here

Mely

When did she leave?

galvanizersbaby

tinkerbell84 wrote: »

people do meet on here though - more than you'd think

look at smartie12 and blowingbubbles who got married at xmas having met on here

I didn't realise that - congrats to smartie & Bubbles in that case!

agscully

Mely wrote: »

When did she leave?

i have asked op a couple of times already how long she has been gone , he seems to be avoiding answering that question

Mely

Yes hes pausing now and not answering my question either!

arcunebera

Triggles wrote: »

Ok. To summarise:

She has been distant recently. She then changed her password on her emails, effectively locking you out, and then left. She is not taking your calls, but she is obviously taking them from her mum as her mum contacted her and told her she needed to let the police know she was okay. She went in personally to the police station with ID and verified to them that she okay. She hasn't contacted you.

This really indicates that she wanted to leave and is okay. If the police had any indication that she was having any kind of mental health problem or emotional distress, they would have offered her assistance.

You are now calling and texting her repeatedly, calling her relatives, contacting her work to see if she's been in, digging through the computer, searching everything she has done, and in your own words are "looking to see if shes met someone online." Don't you see what you're doing here? It's called stalking. You know she is okay, as the police have verified it. Regardless of whether or not you wanted her to leave, she did. As an adult, she has a right to her privacy and a right to do what she wants. She may or may not have met someone. She may have just needed a little time to herself. I think you need to back off and cool down. Wait and see if she contacts you of her own accord.

no one has spoken to her, her mum sent her a text and left a voice mail.
she is speaking to no one.....
thats not right

arcunebera

agscully wrote: »

i have asked op a couple of times already how long she has been gone , he seems to be avoiding answering that question

sorry, i was editing her user id
she left last saturday, i was at work, came home and she had gone

Triggles

she is speaking to no one.....
thats not right

She spoke to the police. She has a right to avoid contact from you and her family if she wishes.