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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Polaroid, Dear Lurks, Bhb, PP and Mari. where are you for our March challenge? xxxxxxx

    Ummm, yes, where are you all??

    Thanks for your support Budgie :)
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • ms_london
    ms_london Posts: 2,852 Forumite
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    Hi Ms London,

    Thanks for the info on the simplyfying life thread, I haven't seen that so will check it out later. I went on a weekend course which was an: introdution to meditation, it was at the Tara Centre in Derby.
    www.taracentre.org.uk
    There are other centre's as well if you google.
    Definitely no alcohol though. What troubled me was that some people could not go two nights without a drink and escaped to a local pub. They might as well of been on a jolly to Blackpool, it defeated the object totally.

    It was very calming though and nice to be in a bubble for a little while.

    They also do a summer festival which seems to be popular. I do like the principles they teach of treating all living things kindly and being aware of ones actions. Drink does definitely not play a good part in those. I do have a beautiful buddha that I brought, quite tall with a lovely pose which when I looked it up was a teaching one. Like I say I am work in progress.

    So take care and let me know if you go on any courses?
    Love and light xxxxxxxxx

    Thank you, will have a look & let you know.

    xxx
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    PHEWhellowave.gif
    Someone asked a few pages back what I did to fill my time since being alcohol free....The answer....I read this thread!!!!

    Its moving so fast I cant keep up anymore.

    Congratulations to everyone on Februarys targets:T
    Welcome to all the newbies.Hope you get lots out of the thread.
    Jo...what can I say...I am soooooooooo proud of you.You are going to do it this time......just remember baby steps......

    Good luck to everybody for March...there is far too many to mention.....and thanks for all the support....

    Ophelia...the Allen Carr book I read is a little book called 'No More Hangovers'
    Its my little bible.I can read it in about an hour and quite often have a look at it when temptation calls.

    See you all tomorrow
    Take care
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    mollypolly wrote: »
    PHEWhellowave.gif

    Hiya MP hi5.gif

    Absolutely love these smilies...I'm sat here looking at them laughing cos they are so cute and OH keeps asking me who I'm talking to on here to make me smile so much :rotfl:
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    Hiya MP hi5.gif

    Absolutely love these smilies...I'm sat here looking at them laughing cos they are so cute and OH keeps asking me who I'm talking to on here to make me smile so much :rotfl:

    signlol.gifMe Too.How sad are we.

    I sent the dancing bananas in an email to my DD2....She says I am totally mad.
    I wrote an email to DD1 inserting pictures instead of words wherever possible.
    This is what I now do with my time.
    thankyou.gif
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • Ok, have successfully devised a dummed down version of my signature, but the original had some suitable smilies in to make it more humerous, but it doesn't seem to like it. Any thoughts gratefully received. Lurkio sir?

    Gonna try and analyse my drinking this month. coffee1.gifShould be interesting.:rolleyes:

    No more tonight, apart from a hot chocklit (already failed on the give up chocklit for lent front...:o ) but as I mentioned earlier, there were a couple of cheeky ones at lunch time after the rugby coaching session:cool: .

    SO night, night peeps and sleep well. Tomorrow (as they say) is another day...


    TRC
    Sealed Pot Challenge 2009 #478 (target £250)
    Debt free date - Dec 2013, Mortgage free date - Jan 2034
    AFF (12/28) [target - 12/28], AFJ (29/31) [target 25/31]
    AFM [no target] [AFD's- 8][1 drink- 4][2 drinks- 4][3 drinks- 1][>3 drinks- 4]
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    mollypolly wrote: »
    signlol.gifMe Too.How sad are we.

    I sent the dancing bananas in an email to my DD2....She says I am totally mad.
    I wrote an email to DD1 inserting pictures instead of words wherever possible.
    This is what I now do with my time.
    thankyou.gif

    You are welcome2.gif

    Sorry, best I could do lol!

    Night all, time for insomnia.gif

    xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    You are welcome2.gif

    Sorry, best I could do lol!

    Night all, time for insomnia.gif

    HSlol.gif..Night nightxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • noynoy
    noynoy Posts: 380 Forumite
    can i join was shocked to see i was drinking about 34 units a week £3000 a yer in wine been making steady projress and cutting down since ja now halved it at the most but more like 12 units a week..now dh and i want to get rid of the mortage and just buy a bottle for sundy dinner to share saving 2800 a year! if we put 100 a month towards our morgage extra 1200 ..we would knock 4 years off and 9k as well as having an extra 1600 a year

    well done evryone such a positive thing to be aiming for
    total debt 4711.00 at lbm (4217.31) dfd aug 2012 :eek: overdraft 800 (400.00) kill overdraft first, loan 1500.00 ,creditcard 2411.00
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
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    March Hare Mad Hatter's Challenge:

    Housemate reporting AFD for 1st March - no problems as busy all day and no cravings reported.

    One down, twenty three to go, 30 days to complete it in...........:eek:
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
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