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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • Happy Birthday for tomorrow GP!!

    Back from dinner - it was lovely. I had one of those big bottles of Bulmers in a frosted glass full of ice. It was gorgeous.

    I so wish I could drink a proper drink and think "yuk...that's awful...pass me a Perrier" but I think hell will freeze over first.

    Still, onwards and upwards - we're all doing really well.

    WB: I'm amazed you're doing so well considering what you're going through right now - you have nothing to apologise for - you deserve a big slap on the back.

    X
    Drinks to remember I, Me and Myself
    And winds up the clock
    And knocks dust of the shelf
    Home is a love that I miss very much
    So the past has been bottled, and labelled with love.
  • *sneaks in*

    :shhh: :shhh: :shhh:


    Mrs Lurky checking in. Don't tell a soul........ I've picked the lock to the cage using a key fashioned from a discarded can of lilt, just to say :hello: to everyone and to wish you all continued strength on your AFJs..... and beyond.

    xxx

    *sneaks out*
    "You give a little love and it all comes back to you! La La La La La La La!"
    Just loving comping and the good guys here!
  • Hi everyone,
    I started reading this thread over the weekend and have been thinking about it for these past couple of days. I'm at the point where I know I have to take control of my relationship with alcohol in order to have a better quality of life. Have been drinking way too much wine, far too regularly and waking up with too many hangovers/regrets to go on like this.
    I'm aiming to not drink at all Sun-Weds and in moderation Thurs-Sat. Although I'm not sure how realistic the idea of moderation is cos every time I aim for it I fail pretty spectactularly. I think having support will make all the difference.
  • Welcome aboard glasgowgirl - hope you find the support on here as helpful as I do.

    I know exactly what you mean about too much, too regularly, and too many regrets the morning after.

    X
    Drinks to remember I, Me and Myself
    And winds up the clock
    And knocks dust of the shelf
    Home is a love that I miss very much
    So the past has been bottled, and labelled with love.
  • Welcome to the gang Glasgowgirl. You have made a good choice for support for sure:j
    29th Feb Quit Day :j
  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    Hi Guys,

    Dearest Lurky, another afd so that makes 20, just been to gym so feeling pooped.
    Loved the Star Wars march I just hope you have not been tormenting poor Mrs Lurky through those bars again :rotfl:

    Happy Birthday to Grey P tomorrow and to Patchoullli's daughters today. :T
    Winebox you are doing amazingly well through this difficult time, thinking of you. Hugs xxx
    Polaroid, Eselt hope you are both ok as you don't seem to have been about today? Hugs xxx

    Welcome Glasgow girl and good luck, you will find alot of support here. Take Care xxx

    To everyone else well done and take care. Day 21 tomorrow 10 to go :T

    NOTE: MRS LURKY IS THAT REALLY YOU? OR IS YOUR POST THE DARK SIDES TRICKORY? WE SHALL CONSULT THE FORCE, THE TIME HAS COME, CAN WE DO IT? YES WE CAN :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Love and hugs everyone xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • *sneaks in*

    :shhh: :shhh: :shhh:


    Mrs Lurky checking in. Don't tell a soul........ I've picked the lock to the cage using a key fashioned from a discarded can of lilt, just to say :hello: to everyone and to wish you all continued strength on your AFJs..... and beyond.

    xxx

    *sneaks out*

    Phew...I don't think Captain Lurkio noticed...

    TRC :cool:
    Sealed Pot Challenge 2009 #478 (target £250)
    Debt free date - Dec 2013, Mortgage free date - Jan 2034
    AFF (12/28) [target - 12/28], AFJ (29/31) [target 25/31]
    AFM [no target] [AFD's- 8][1 drink- 4][2 drinks- 4][3 drinks- 1][>3 drinks- 4]
  • :bdaycake: Happy birthday for tomorrow greypilgrim. I was alcohol free on my birthday a couple of weeks ago. Also for the first time in my adult life :o . I'm sure you can do it. GOFRIT.:D

    I have another dilemma coming up...:undecided Saturday we have been invited out to friends for a burns night/chinese new year celebration. I reckon there will be a few people there, maybe 8. It's one thing going out to dinner for a couple of hours and volunteering to drive. It's quite another going out in the village (i.e. where you can walk) and often these things don't finish to early IYSWIM. So I may have to partake of a few glasses of the red stuff, and settle for 30/31. After all, this will be well ahead of my target...

    ...haven't convinced myself yet. I'll have to wait and see how my resolve is later in the week, but at the moment I don't fancy my chances:sad:

    But in the meantime 20/20 for me Lurky, old chap.

    TRC
    Sealed Pot Challenge 2009 #478 (target £250)
    Debt free date - Dec 2013, Mortgage free date - Jan 2034
    AFF (12/28) [target - 12/28], AFJ (29/31) [target 25/31]
    AFM [no target] [AFD's- 8][1 drink- 4][2 drinks- 4][3 drinks- 1][>3 drinks- 4]
  • Happy birthday GP - sneaks in first cos was up late working!!! he he he

    AF today (well yesterday now) Woo hoo xx
    Thanks guys for the support and hugs to you all
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite

    NOTE: MRS LURKY IS THAT REALLY YOU? OR IS YOUR POST THE DARK SIDES TRICKORY? WE SHALL CONSULT THE FORCE, THE TIME HAS COME, CAN WE DO IT? YES WE CAN :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:


    Yes, it was...... she's out!!!!! :eek: :eek: :eek: ;)



    Happy Birthday GP :bdaycake: :bdaycake: :bdaycake: :T :T :T :T :T

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
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