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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • graemecarter
    graemecarter Posts: 1,205 Forumite
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    winebox wrote: »
    This is the bit I'm failing at - moderation. I'm finding it fairly easy to be AF when in the normal routine at home (hope that doesn't sound smug but it was just breaking the habit I needed to do & I seem to have cracked that for the time being). But see how few days I'm at home in the normal routine!! And, now my problem is that whereas a lot of you cutter-downers are being brilliant at having just one or two, every non AF day for me has seen me having far too much. Now, I'm actually rather fond of binge-drinking & reserve the right to do it sometimes !! but I have got to leave behind the "all or nothing" mentality every time I start.

    Jo - as we seem to be, erm, lagging behind a bit here I'm going to try for 4 AF days with you this week. Secretly hoping for 5. (Now it's not a secret - damn! There I go again - no self restraint)

    Edit: I watch Corrie!!

    I could never do moderation. It would be all or nothing.
    If I did have one, I would really want another one. So I found it easier not to have any.

    If I was a person that could drink in moderation, I would.
    I am not that person, so I don't drink at all.

    If you guys can do moderation AND STICK TO IT, then you are doing well, and have no need to give up drinking entirely. :T
    However, if we could drink in moderation, we wouldn't be posting on this thread !

    However, with me, I couldn't do that so don't drink at all
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Lurkio wrote: »
    So set a new one :) :cool: :whistle: :whistle: :whistle:

    Ooooooooohhh!! ;)
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Lurkio wrote: »
    So set a new one :) :cool: :whistle: :whistle: :whistle:
    Ooooooooooooo...fighting talk:D :D
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
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    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    I could never do moderation. It would be all or nothing.
    If I did have one, I would really want another one. So I found it easier not to have any.

    If I was a person that could drink in moderation, I would.
    I am not that person, so I don't drink at all.

    If you guys can do moderation AND STICK TO IT, then you are doing well, and have no need to give up drinking entirely. :T
    However, if we could drink in moderation, we wouldn't be posting on this thread !

    However, with me, I couldn't do that so don't drink at all

    Me too.
    Just cant seem to do moderation in anything:D ;):D :rolleyes: :whistle: :whistle:
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    mollypolly wrote: »
    Ooooooooooooo...fighting talk:D :D
    jo1972 wrote: »
    Ooooooooohhh!! ;)

    :confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    mollypolly wrote: »
    Me too.
    Just cant seem to do moderation in anything:D ;):D :rolleyes: :whistle: :whistle:

    :silenced: :silenced: :silenced: :silenced: ;)

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • graemecarter
    graemecarter Posts: 1,205 Forumite
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    mollypolly wrote: »
    Me too.
    Just cant seem to do moderation in anything:D ;):D :rolleyes: :whistle: :whistle:

    another weakness is Haagen Daz.......moderation is tough with that baby.

    Love as well, I fall head over heels in love :p
  • biscotte
    biscotte Posts: 246 Forumite
    My downfall is Movenpick ice cream - totally and utterly indulgent (oh and the booze and choklit and cakes and.....I could go on!)
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    I used to have a problem with lilt :rolleyes: :rotfl:
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    I used to have a problem with lilt :rolleyes: :rotfl:

    DAMN! Why did you mention that on the day I'm going shopping.... :mad:

    *adds bottle of lilt to list*

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
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