MSE Pregnancy Club IV

elle_gee

Congratulations on the birth of Cyi-Bailey, Bekki Sorry for my ignorance, but how do you pronouce Cyi? (I know I'm going to get the same question with the name I have in mind! :rolleyes:)

Is he your first? Us first-timers especially like hearing about quick first labours!

tarajayne

Congrats Bekki.

Bought some sugar free sweets for the kids so just thought I'd taste one as I opened the bag, I seemed to have got a bit carried away. Ben, my 5yr old just came into the kitchen and tutted at me, oops! They were very nice.

searching_me

congrats bekkki x

cazscoob

congrats bekki!! that moves me further up the list again ahhhh!!! 22 days to go and counting!

searching_me

all on my own tonight... dont like it usually when oh is away hes just down the road babysitting and i see him straight away in the morning... i wont see him til late tomorrow night... my not so little madam is in bed and dogs fast asleep... im bored and lonely how sad x

elle_gee

Oh, silly hormone moment - I've just burst into tears at the man on the Lotto show winning £100k!

cazscoob

*hugs* searching nothing worse than feeling alone just enjoy the peace lol! i have my lot up a bit later tonight as they have been good and helped me most of the day:D

Elle i had one of they moments earlier, my friend came in with her baby niece (6 weeks) and i paniced. couldnt hold her or anything thinking oh my god i have all this to go through again! you think that i would be use to it but think im getting worried about how im going to manage? burst into tears when they left and felt really stupid??

bekkki1

"Congratulations on the birth of Cyi-Bailey, Bekki Sorry for my ignorance, but how do you pronouce Cyi? (I know I'm going to get the same question with the name I have in mind! :rolleyes:)"

You pronounce it Kai - I just prefer to spell things differently

He is my second, my first labour was about 9 hours

searching_me

yer feeling alittle silly as i know hes coming back tomorrow but my eye kept welling for about an hour im ok now ... ish... hes texting me so thats helping x

myaccount08

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thanks everyone i darnt even think mor ethan 3 days ahead at the moment as i worry so much but i also know i cant do anything about it so i try not to stress .... i was going to try and get an early scan to ease my mind is this possible? due to my MC last time? i dont even care if i see anything id just like to know its in the right place and there is a herat beat? ive heard ppl get these but i dont know under what circumstances... is it only if your not sure of your dates? and what is the earliest the can tell me if there is a HB?

Hi, i'm in the same boat just now. I've had 5 losses, and after a long long time TTC im recently pregnant again. They won't scan you just because of one early loss (because it's so common, they can't be scanning everyone!), unless it was ectopic. I had an emergency scan in week 5 to check for ectopic/molar pregnancy because i was in alot of pain and my hormones were abnormally high. Things seem to be getting abit better now. It's funny because i dont think more than a few days ahead either, i think it's probably natural.

I'm paying for a scan privately as i'm a nervous wreck! It's £100 at our fertility clinic, we'll be booking it for @ 8 weeks. At 9 weeks you can see movement though, so if i can control myself we may wait the extra week Should help abit until the NHS scan at 12ish weeks (although they're very slow here, often you dont get it till 14+ weeks).

Upto 50% of first time pregnancies end in m/c and it puts you at NO increased risk of having another. Once they see the heartbeat you have a 95% chance of everything being fine. Maybe worth having the private scan so you can enjoy it abit more?