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MSE Pregnancy Club IV
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feelinggood wrote: »Aww
I'm here. CPN is still AWOL. I phoned the Consultant, and am waiting for her to get back to me. Struggling rather a lot. Feel awful - I mean, having a baby is so wonderful, that should be enough to stop me being depressed, shouldn't it.
hon,
just because you are having a baby and as you know that is a wonderful thing, it doesn't put a stop to the reasons someone may be depressed, as much as we would like it to.
(((big hugs)))
just keep talking about it. i know the other day you were saying you didn't feel like talking about it when the CPN was MEANT to come and see you, but even if it is to us on here, just get those words out of your head and out into the world. might help a smidge?? even if it helps a little it's worth it.
i am not one for keeping a diary, and not sure if you do/can but even write your thoughts in there. even if they are random, not proper sentences, just feelings or thoughts.
now, feel free to throw all this back and me becuase i am great for dishing out the advice but never taking it more
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well ladies im back (((hugs))) to those who need them ...
i had my scan all is well 2 arms 2 legs... and its a boy :T so thats me in the blue team ... took DD with us but she cried because she wanted a sister :rotfl: bless her shes ok now and seems happy but that maybe because i got her a toy and got her maccy d'd for lunch 
... i knew i was gonna have a boy although its a strange feeling im use to the girlie things had 6 years of pink went in to mothercare after and still headed straight for the pink alsie:rotfl: ... so i can start shopping now i supose x 
Still searching .....:)
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feelinggood wrote: »Aww
I'm here. CPN is still AWOL. I phoned the Consultant, and am waiting for her to get back to me. Struggling rather a lot. Feel awful - I mean, having a baby is so wonderful, that should be enough to stop me being depressed, shouldn't it.
Bless you hun, don't beat yourself up. My sister suffered from PND with her first. She was ecstatic she had a girl, thought everything would be wonderful and rosy, and dear niece didn't stop crying for about a year...and sis couldn't bond with her properly and thought she was a terrible mum, and didn't realise she had PND..which obviously made it worse. When the MW told her that she had PND, she said it was like a weight had been lifted, she realised that every mum has different experiences and expectations and you can only do your best. She was absolutely fine with her second child. As long as you recognise the symptoms, that's half the battle. A cloudy day is no match for a sunny disposition~ William Arthur Ward ~0 -
searching_me wrote: »well ladies im back (((hugs))) to those who need them ...
i had my scan all is well 2 arms 2 legs... and its a boy :T so thats me in the blue team ... took DD with us but she cried because she wanted a sister :rotfl: bless her shes ok now and seems happy but that maybe because i got her a toy and got her maccy d'd for lunch ... i knew i was gonna have a boy although its a strange feeling im use to the girlie things had 6 years of pink went in to mothercare after and still headed straight for the pink alsie:rotfl: ... so i can start shopping now i supose x
Oooh, names????:D A cloudy day is no match for a sunny disposition~ William Arthur Ward ~0 -
thanks for giving us an update searching_me
another for the blue team ..............
mine's still a lemon/lime/neutral bump.
must remember to tell the sonographer next week NOT to say what i am having (thinking at 34 weeks it's going to be more noticable).0 -
havent got the foggiest ... honestly aint got a clue??? help??? xStill searching .....:)
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searching_me wrote: »havent got the foggiest ... honestly aint got a clue??? help??? x
With names? Don't get me started. A cloudy day is no match for a sunny disposition~ William Arthur Ward ~0 -
i had thought of only girls names and the only boys names i like i cant use
x Still searching .....:)
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searching_me wrote: »i had thought of only girls names and the only boys names i like i cant use x
Here's a few, hun.- Jack
- Thomas
- Oliver
- Joshua
- Harry
- Charlie
- Daniel
- William
- James
- Alfie
- Samuel
- George
- Joseph
- Benjamin
- Ethan
- Lewis
- Mohammed
- Jake
- Dylan
- Jacob
- Luke
- Callum
- Alexander
- Matthew
- Ryan
- Adam
- Tyler
- Liam
- Harvey
- Max
- Harrison
- Jayden
- Cameron
- Henry
- Archie
- Connor
- Jamie
- Muhammad
- Oscar
- Edward
- Lucas
- Isaac
- Leo
- Owen
- Nathan
- Michael
- Finley
- Ben
- Aaron
- Noah
- Toby
- Charles
- Kyle
- Logan
- Mason
- Rhys
- Alex
- Riley
- Finlay
- Louis
- Kieran
- Kai
- Freddie
- David
- Reece
- Brandon
- Bradley
- Kian
- Harley
- Bailey
- Mohammad
- Luca
- Theo
- John
- Leon
- Ashton
- Sam
- Ellis
- Aidan
- Joel
- Hayden
- Evan
- Zachary
- Robert
- Joe
- Sebastian
- Billy
- Taylor
- Elliot
- Christopher
- Reuben
- Gabriel
- Morgan
- Corey
- Louie
- Jay
- Dominic
- Sean
- Andrew
- Zak
A cloudy day is no match for a sunny disposition~ William Arthur Ward ~0 -
Me and OH both like the name Lincoln, but would that be silly, seeing as our surname is another presidents name? Lincoln Clinton would just be stupid, wouldn't it? (Surname isn't Clinton, but you get the idea)
Still no phonecall from Consultant, was hoping she'd get back to me today. Fingers crossed, otherwise I'll just lie on the sofa and cry all weekend Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.0
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