in deep, deep trouble

LittleEmms

I think that's allowed .. lol... bless her!! Did you get to make cakes in the end?

Hope you're ok, big virtual supportive hugs for tomorrow!!

x

bumblebee87_2

yep, ended up just making choc fairy cakes though, i realised i didnt have any icing sugar for the frosting

the closer tomorrow gets, the less time i have to wait sooooooooooo im going to adopt a PMA (positive mental attitude) for the next 12 hours (court is at 9-30am) and what will be will be.

dont worry if im not around for the next couple of days though, after tonight i may not get a chance to get online till thursday night due to OH's op and my dad not having internet

thank you all for the good wishes x

GreyhoundAngel

Just come accross your thread - I can relate very well with the shaking while trying to write - been doing alot of that myself.

I'm so very sorry for your loss, I feel for you. It's not easy to deal with grief & debt at the same time.

Somehow, it always seems easier to see things clearer when reading about other people - yet we can't seem to see our own "wood for the trees".

Have courage Bumble, I'm sure there must be a bridge somewhere to let us cross to the other bank - even if we have to build it ourselves, one brick at a time! I wish you & your family well, and will pop in from time to time to see how things are.

LittleEmms

MMm choc fairy cakes sound good!!! Bet she loved helping you make them too!

Well done on the positive mental attitude - and again, best of luck, also for the OH's operation!!

Here waiting, when you need us!!

xx

LilMissEmmylou

aww my DD is 2 tomorrow, she looooves baking! Plus - its good for them to rule the world at that age - gives them lots of confidence

good luck tomorrow x

bumblebee87_2

kids love mixing dont they! shes always helping me with dinner etc, even if its just getting something out of the freezer to defrost or counting the potatoes out of the cupboard!

happy birthday to your DD for tomorrow hun x

bumblebee87_2

well today is the day :eek: i got about an hour of decent sleep last night, the rest of the night was just full of strange dreams, so i dont look my best :rotfl:

i will be able to pop back on later, got to come back here to get some bits before we go over to my dads, and ill be taking the laptop so hopefully ill find a wireless network while im there

speak to you all later :A

pania

good luck sweet thinking of you. xxx

bumblebee87_2

im home, and thankfully we can still call it home!!!!!!!

i cant believe how lucky we were, thery had the repossesion order there for the judge to sign, we explained the circumstances, made the very highest offer we could, and the judge has suspended the order for 3 months, if we pay what we have agreed, on payday for 3 months the order will be scrapped.

i am so relieved, thank you all so much for your words of support.

to celebrate, we went to woolies and got DD 62p of pic'n'mix (i will put it in the grocery spend :rotfl: )

we had to go into tescos and buy some plug unblocking stuff £3.38 :eek: but to make up for it, good old Mr T had loads of yellow stickered stuff for us.
a whole chicken, £1.66, really squishy hovis bread 89p (well i thought we deserved a treat ) 500g sprouts 49p a seasonal veg pack (5 carrots, a parsnip, an onion and a swede) 89p, and 500g carrots 35p!!!!! very very impressed!!!!

so all in all, a good morning, if not slightly terrifying

thank you all again youre all :A x

pania

oh god that is great news!! so relieved for you hon. xxx