Leaving my husband

rolo-polo1965

piglet74 wrote: »

good luck with that, will be thinkng of you, just keep thinking "this is the last thurs. i have to do this" then "this is the last friday.." etc and each day u will wake up feeling stronger, that will carry you through until next tuesday,

it seems unfair u have to leave, but do u think ur hubbie really dones think theres a problem, or does he think, "she wont leave me", and thats why he wont go,

ur doing the right thing, good luck, and take care of u,

Thanks
saw a soliciter today he gave me 1/2 hour of free advice well i was in there for 1 1/2 hours so that was good, he told me what i should write in letter i am leaving for hubby,

I feel much better after seeing him.

I know i am doing the right thing

Thanks to everyone for your support

TurnaroundSue

Hi rolo - just wanted to add my support. I was in your position where I was going to leave OH and said to him that if he didn't go to relate then I was (or rather he was) going!!. I had got to the stage where I wasn't prepared to put up with his cr*p anymore and had come to the end of the road.

Luckily for me (although I really don't want you to think I am gloating) it worked out with my OH and we sorted out differences, (with the help of relate). I am only telling you this as I know if he hadn't had agreed to relate then we were finished. It is not a one-way street, it needs BOTH of you to agree to work at the marriage and if he isn't prepared to do that then you will never find happiness and neither will the children. He will just grind you down more and more and the children will also suffer alot more.

I am thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs:grouphug:

msflowerfairy

Hi,

I just wanted to say that i am thinking of you, and will be thinking of you on Tuesday. Lots of hugs xx

msb5262

Hello Rollo,
To quote TurnaroundSue, just wanted to add my support. I was very unhappy when my marriage was coming to an end and it sounds as if you're doing the right thing, indeed the only thing. Very glad you have got some good advice and that you've found somewhere to live. You'll be in my thoughts as well, especially next Tuesday (hope you'll still be able to get online).
Sending you lots of love and strength,
MsB

rolo-polo1965

msb5262 wrote: »

Hello Rollo,
To quote TurnaroundSue, just wanted to add my support. I was very unhappy when my marriage was coming to an end and it sounds as if you're doing the right thing, indeed the only thing. Very glad you have got some good advice and that you've found somewhere to live. You'll be in my thoughts as well, especially next Tuesday (hope you'll still be able to get online).
Sending you lots of love and strength,
MsB

thanks for your love and support.

that reminds me i need to sort out my broadband in the new house, not just for me but for the kids as well.

i just keep thinking that this is the last weekend i need to spend with him, thank goodness

turkolina

I can't imagine what you are going through it sounds awful.

Be strong and your doing the right thing for yourself and for your children.

Keep strong and good luck..

Maria x

piglet74

rolo-polo1965 wrote: »

thanks for your love and support.

that reminds me i need to sort out my broadband in the new house, not just for me but for the kids as well.

i just keep thinking that this is the last weekend i need to spend with him, thank goodness

just keep thinking that, theres friday almost over, your last friday before you get a new life for you and your girls, your almost at the finish line, be strong, and be safe!! take care xo

McKneff

Good for you Rolo, now starts the rest of your life. Keep thinking positive.
i am so glad for you. Keep posting, wont you and let us know how you are getting on. Good luck for Tuesday, I'll be thinking of you and your family.

rolo-polo1965

anniehanlon wrote: »

Good for you Rolo, now starts the rest of your life. Keep thinking positive.
i am so glad for you. Keep posting, wont you and let us know how you are getting on. Good luck for Tuesday, I'll be thinking of you and your family.

I will keep posting for as long as i can, if it takes a while to get the broad band sorted at our new home i will post from work.

thanks every one

McKneff

I know this seems a silly thing to say but I'm sure you will understnad that there is no malice, but

i am excited for you !!!!!