Leaving my husband

rolo-polo1965

In one week i will have my own house.

Spent last night sorting out buildings and contents insurance for the new house. Churchill seems good at £173 for both which i thought was a good price. Getting it to start on Monday in case anything happens as he leaves if you know what i mean.

Will let you know how it goes as the week goes on.

Lara44

Rolo, I just read your thread.

What you have done is amazing, and how much things have changed in a year. Well done you truly deserve it. I will be thinking of you back in your house next week, all newly decorated on your own terms.

Very best wishes

yoni_one

Ooooooo it is getting so close, I am very excited for you rolo.

And yep, £173 sounds like a good price for B & C :T

TurnaroundSue

rolo-polo1965 wrote: »

In one week i will have my own house.

Spent last night sorting out buildings and contents insurance for the new house. Churchill seems good at £173 for both which i thought was a good price. Getting it to start on Monday in case anything happens as he leaves if you know what i mean.

Will let you know how it goes as the week goes on.

Not sure if you have already got your insurance, but don't forget to go through Quidco to get cashback on it. I know Churchill are on Quidco as we had £100 cashback on our car insurance:T

The_Next_Verse

rolo-polo1965 wrote: »

I could do with some advice. I have 3 children living at home, none of us are happy, my husband has become more and more verbally abusive. He belittles the children all the time calling them names. When my son failed his AS exams \(his best friend died of cancer) he went belistic calling him names. When my eldest daughter lived at home he told her he wished she had died instead of his mother.
I have found a house that the children and i could rent but not sure if i am doing the right thing.
We have a mortgage in both names, joint bank accounts, joint credit cards etc.
I am after some advise, he says that there is no way he is leaving the family home, as he has put so much money and effort into it, but then so have i

My priority is my childen, i want them to be safe and happy, at the moment i feel that they are not.

He sounded so horrible, well done for leaving. You clearly deserve better. Good luck with everything, it will be a lovely new start after all of that.

~The Next Verse

rolo-polo1965

TurnaroundSue wrote: »

Not sure if you have already got your insurance, but don't forget to go through Quidco to get cashback on it. I know Churchill are on Quidco as we had £100 cashback on our car insurance:T

Oh dear
Churchill are not on quidco any more.

ambyence

Rolo, your strength is truly admirable. I have so much respect for you.
Congratulations to both your son and daughter on their results, it is a testament to you as a parent as well as to them in this stressful time.
Best wishes to you and I know there will be better times ahead,
Ambs xx

TurnaroundSue

rolo-polo1965 wrote: »

Oh dear
Churchill are not on quidco any more.

Sorry Rolo didn't realise that! Is there any other company on there who would be cheaper with a cashback deal?

rolo-polo1965

Went with more than in the end.

£208 with £80 back from quidco. So am rather pleased.

Get my hose on Friday all being well and no gremlins

rolo-polo1965

Well everything went through yesterday. I let him stay overnight in the end as everything didnt go through till after 4pm.

Got the keys today. He left the key hidden for me at the house.

Took the kids round felt very aprehensive but it was all ok.

He had took everything though, was suposed to be leaving me the cooker which was there. He was taking the fridge freezer but it wouldnt go in his flat so he left it for me which is good. Should have left me a sofa but took them all.

I could create but to be honest i dont think it is worth it.

We are going to wikes tomorrow to buy some paint and look at kitchen cupboards as they are in a bit of a state, but wheter they will get replaced depends on cost. But we shall see.

Feel better now i have been round, we emptied the kitchen cupboards of out of date food. Dustbins are full so going to fill car up tomorrow and go to tip with junk from garden.

Was anoyed he took chiminea as i wanted that but hey such is life.

Will let you know how it all goes