Different life - so new SOA!! Back once again :D

Sea78

Wow!! I need to get onto that! :)xx

Sea78

Hi everyone!

Need to get so much done today! Nothing major - just all those little bits and pieces to catch up on.

*Ring and hassle solicitor
*Collect parcel from sorting office
*get secret santa pressie
*Post 2 parcels at post office
*Pop to abbey to set up dd for mortgage
*Drop off clothes at friend's house that I borrowed
*Pick up childminders presents and drop off at hers.
*Collect ordered bits from Argos
*Go to pound shop for bird bits and pieces for part of my mum's present from DS.
*Tesco shop for food and stocking fillers
*make list for above shop!!
*find some boxes for him to pack his stuff up in
*washing/drying/putting away clothes
*sweep downstairs.

Phew!!

xxx

pixiechick99

Wow....busy day indeed!
Must get cracking here too, we're going to do some baking.
Off you go and get started on that huge list!;)

Sea78

*Ring and hassle solicitor - he's not in til this afternoon at 2pm
*Collect parcel from sorting office - will have to do this tomorrow as arrived 10 mins after it had closed!
[STRIKE]*get secret santa pressie[/STRIKE]
*Post 2 parcels at post office
*Pop to abbey to set up dd for mortgage
*Drop off clothes at friend's house that I borrowed
*Pick up childminders presents and drop off at hers.
[STRIKE]*Collect ordered bits from Argos[/STRIKE]
*Go to pound shop for bird bits and pieces for part of my mum's present from DS.
*Tesco shop for food and stocking fillers - tonight
*make list for above shop!!
*find some boxes for him to pack his stuff up in
*washing/drying/putting away clothes
*sweep downstairs.

Oh dear
not going so well yet!!
After I ring the sol at 2 I'm off into the local town centre so should be able to get a lot of the list done then I hope!!

taxi73

Hi Sea..great big long list there!!!
Hope you got things sorted with solicitor xx fingers crossed here.Hopefully when you next post he's gone.

mum2one

So plzed things are going right at last, with everything you have been through, and you have come out the other side, you deserve every piece of good luck in the world.

Re the bed, if you had a small child bed, they grow out of them so quick, in 1 or 2 yrs you'd need another, what I did with dd we got her a metal frame (from Netto) and a matress from Argos, (£50.00), she had that for 18mths, then we I got her a better bed, but sold the metal one for £40.00, so didint loose to much. xx

yellowmonkey

Hi Sea

just popping in to say Happy Xmas :xmastree:

ym

xx

vandanfc

Hi Sea

Just catching up. At least you seem to be progressing forwards, roll on the day he leaves and you have the house and the kids to yourself - hopefully he is gone or will be today or tomorrow at the latest. Then hip hip hurray you can start afresh without that idiot lousing up your life.

Hope you have a fantastic Christmas and en even better New Year.

Take care.
Vanda

Sea78

hi all!!!

Well, he's moving out today - he's happy that he'll have his money and realises I can't trick him over anything (?!?!) so will go.

I'm in a strange place - feeling sad and strange really - 8 years ending today. But onwards and upwards. Need to get a grip of finances - running through my fingers like water at the moment and just can't afford that!

Thanks for all the support & help. You are all wonderful.

Sea xxxx

hypno06

Sad though it is that things didn't work out, you have the knowledge that you tried to be reasonable, and tried to make things work.

Look forward now - enjoy Christmas, and the new life that you and the children can have. OK there will be tough times, but hey, you can cope with that! The positives will far outweigh the negatives.

Happy Christmas xxx