**Daily Chat Thread*20th Oct 08*

JET34

jinky67 wrote: »

Who gave you permission to be happy?

Have I missed something Jet?

damn I forgot to get the permission:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I don't think you have missed anything............. I went out got a little drunk!! Danced with a younger man who I gave my number!!! he rang and texted but he wasn't my type so I didn't reply... he was however a very good dancer!!lol I met up with my very first boyfriend last sat for tea and a chat which was really really nice... and I have since received a lovely email from him:D Oh yea and I met up with an old friend and her son which again was really really nice....
But the best thing of all was I didn't have to see my DS's Ahole of a dad this weekend!!!:j:j:j:j I am going to text him and tell him to stay away this week as well:rolleyes:
so all in all October is going to be my month:D seeing as the rest of them this year and last year were carp!:mad:

minimee_2

Indebt1984 wrote: »

Morning all,
Break up must be in the water, cos me and hubby split up over 3 weeks ago. Not coping to well. Just pack up his stuff for him to collect tonight. He wanted to go and im hurt cos i dont know what i done wrong.

Lonely at nights no one to talk to. I going to ebay some bits i dont need for xmas money. Not looking forward to xmas this year.

Hope all is ok everyone?

Oh InDebt, Im so sorry. I hope you're coping ok.
Did he tell you why? Have you got a friend you could stay with for a couple of nights so you can talk?
Im sure you'll be fine at Christmas. It will be different, yes. But not neccessarily worse. Do you have a close family?

minimee_2

JET34 wrote: »

damn I forgot to get the permission:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I don't think you have missed anything............. I went out got a little drunk!! Danced with a younger man who I gave my number!!! he rang and texted but he wasn't my type so I didn't reply... he was however a very good dancer!!lol I met up with my very first boyfriend last sat for tea and a chat which was really really nice... and I have since received a lovely email from him:D Oh yea and I met up with an old friend and her son which again was really really nice....
But the best thing of all was I didn't have to see my DS's Ahole of a dad this weekend!!!:j:j:j:j I am going to text him and tell him to stay away this week as well:rolleyes:
so all in all October is going to be my month:D seeing as the rest of them this year and last year were carp!:mad:

Ooooh Saucy!!! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Indebt1984

Snaggles Yeah it horrible and i dont wish it on anyone.

Snaggles: Do you feel torn in half, Cos one mintue i just get on with life and think dont worry it all be ok then next min i feel low and dont know how to cope? Or maybe it just me.

pania

In debt. i'm with you on teh lonely nights and no one to talk to right now. work is the only thing that gets me through and i am doing soooo much of it right now it is unbelievable! it was my choice but i know how you feel, have been sleeping on the sofa mostly as i can't stand going up to bed on my own. PM me and anytime you want to talk i am on skype msn, googlemail, you name it!!!

Big hugs for you from a sympathetic ear. xxx

jinky67

Indebt you deserve an answer as to why?

Has he not given you one?

(((((hugs))))) for you as well

jinky67

Indebt1984 wrote: »

Snaggles: Do you feel torn in half, Cos one mintue i just get on with life and think dont worry it all be ok then next min i feel low and dont know how to cope? Or maybe it just me.

No it's not just you

I feel exactly the same.

Indebt1984

Oh InDebt, Im so sorry. I hope you're coping ok.
Did he tell you why? Have you got a friend you could stay with for a couple of nights so you can talk?
Im sure you'll be fine at Christmas. It will be different, yes. But not neccessarily worse. Do you have a close family?

My family lives 90 miles away. But going to see a friend on thursday. Maybe it cos im a quite person and dont like people knowing my business like family and friends,

Snaggles

Indebt1984 wrote: »

Snaggles Yeah it horrible and i dont wish it on anyone.

Snaggles: Do you feel torn in half, Cos one mintue i just get on with life and think dont worry it all be ok then next min i feel low and dont know how to cope? Or maybe it just me.

I think I'm still in the 'feeling numb' stage, although my situation is slightly different, as in some ways it was my choice for him to go. But I think maybe the can't cope stages will be more frequent at first, and then become less frequent as time goes on? I'm not sure, but I hope so hun x

pania

However... I am getting rather concerned that there will be a distinct lack of males due all of us newly single dfw'er's!!! in alaska its one girl to 40 men.. lucky lucky lucky!!! here it will be one man to 40 ladies!! (poor poor poor man!)