Trying For a Baby II

lita

I've read all the pages in this thread since yesterday but haven't wrote anything but can't stay quiet when people are needing hugs so first one first
:grouphug: dodgy hug for Annie 'cause you really sound like you need one. Keep smiling you'll get there eventually xx

AnnieM_3

Thanks Lita :A , and a hearty welcome to the thread.

AnnieM x

lita

Thanks hun I suppose i'd better introduce myself really
I am 23 years old and have been with OH for 4 1/2 years, up until June this year I was told no to having children as he already has 2 but after lots of talks about how very unfair this was he has finally said yes and is now enjoying the bd-ing that comes with it
We tried in June and July and then I got cold feet so we went back to using protection (TMI??)
Now I am very very ready so we have started trying again
My last AF started 31 Oct, we last bd-ed wed 19 and nothing more since as we have had his kids here since friday ( I really dont like the idea of being caught by someone elses kids!!!)
Everyone around me is popping them out left, right and centre which is doing my nut in but I'm just telling myself now that it'll be my turn soon (hopefully).

I look forward to spending some time with people in the same boat as it makes it easier to know you're not alone. Speak soon xxx

shelly

lita wrote: »

We tried in June and July and then I got cold feet so we went back to using protection (TMI??)

You will soon find on this thread you can never give TMI. Nothing is sacred!! :rotfl:

Welcome & good luck to yourself and all newbies joined the thread recently.

lita

Thats good to know, I'm not one for getting embarrassed about these things but obviously when in new company it's best to play it safe

AnnieM_3

shelly wrote: »

You will soon find on this thread you can never give TMI. Nothing is sacred!! :rotfl:

Haha - you beat me to it - I was just going to point that out! You know you're a ttc expert (and probably spending too much time on this thread) when you start discussing the details of your cervical mucus :rotfl:

iwantababy123

Welcome Lita :hello: Good luck with the baby making

Aww Annie (((big hugs))) you seem like you need some Hope your flu bug goes away soon. I know it's probably easy for me to say but I think you need to try and stay positive with the baby making, I don't know how long you've been trying and I really feel for you because you're obviously desperate for a little baby but putting too much pressure on yourself is just going to stress you out hunny. Like I said easy for me to say, feel free to tell me to shut up

I was torturing myself before watching Baby Days on Home and Health, I've always loved watching stuff like that anyway but I was really longing for one and I know it's soooo far away until I get my own.

I told my best friend we were trying today so I think i'm going to go back to my proper username as I think she's the only person who knows it.

cedrickerry

Dreama wrote: »

Hi All

I have been hovering on the board for some time now, as I am desperate to start TTC. I have been with my partner for 7 years, and we were teenagers when we got together so never really talked about the issue until a few years ago. Now my problem is that the last time I spoke to my partner about it he said he understood that I want one, but said he is just being lasy by not wanting to TTC....that he hardly has free time as it is and that he would never have any with a child. He definately wants them, but always says 'one day'...now I know if I were to fall pg he would stand by me, but he will not committ to TTC - and I don't know what to do. It is more difficult because both my sisters and his four siblings all now have children and I feel sick at gatherings because I want this so much and I feel like i'm the one who'll never get it.

Am i overreacting? I don't want to force him into it but I can't go on with this longing, it is making me so miserable, I can;t think of anything else...

Sorry for the rant

I also get the feeling my DH is not up for it as much as I am (and at 34 the clock is ticking . . . ..tic....tock!) He says he is but is not forthcomin with BDing - just asking for exact days when it may work - feels so mechanical as he's reluctant to come near me otherwise. I know he would thoroughly be supportive if we succeed though so even more frustrating . . . . .. .

hayley11

I am iwantababy123 - yay no more logging in and out

Cedrickerry - maybe tell your OH that doing it every other night is the way to go? It can't hurt can it? Good luck with the baby making hunny x

lita

Well done hun, glad you feel like you can be you now IYSWIM:D