Trying For a Baby II

smartie12

Not going to tell my DH to go looking for cm.... he'll be using that excuse all the time!!

smartie12

Gena wrote: »

Big hugs to everyone feeling down / pee'd off today xxxx

I'm on CD26, nothing to report today. I don't think it will happen this month, but every time I go to the toilet without a sign of AF I hope a little bit more.

When is AF due??? And how long are you going to give it before you test??

becs

Ah Kenco that's fab news! It is so bizarre isn't it, you spend all that time waiting for an AF only when they do return to spend every month hoping they don't!:rotfl:
My first one after 14 months was also very very heavy and clotty so sounds normal. fingers crossed it's all a good sign for you.

Gena

smartie12 wrote: »

When is AF due??? And how long are you going to give it before you test??

Hard to know when it's due - it used to arrive anywhere from CD 25 to CD28. I've very rarely gone over the 28-day cycle. But this is only my 3rd cycle since my mc and my last AF was on day 19, so I don't know if I'll have settled back into my normal rhythm or not. I'll try to wait a few days after it's due if nothing happens in the meantime, but who knows if i can be strong enough!!:D

MadMac_2

Kencokenco, yippeee! Fingers crossed that something has just clicked the right way and you'll be all the better for it! How sad that we can get so excited over a period - I wouldn't have believed that at age 13!!!! Good to have you back x

Kmckee - yup, it brings more fun for you and your DH, enjoy!

And Smartie... you shouldn't mind him using an excuse like that

Oh, I miss my OH soooo much at the moment :rotfl:

mishkanorman

my AF turned up monday (hurrah), after coming off the pill at the start of april ! no signs, no pain just loads of bleeding and PMT from hell, lol.


these things always come in threes so i thought i would kick things off for those lasies waiting for them !

mishka

B2B-2008

AF showed up today, a 28 day cycle for me at last. OV tests and preseed have been ordered so bring on next month :rotfl:

shelly

emmzy wrote: »

see i knew all you people would have the answers lol thats why i asked i did think it looked a bit expensive for nothing.

So the preseed is better? have any of you tried it? this sounds like a odd question but what does it smell like? lol we had one of they durex minty lubes ages ago and it smelled like toothpaste and put me off. OH made an inapropriate polo joke and we both ended up laughing and nothing happened it cost about £7 and its in the bathroom unused since then

Pre seed doesn't smell of anything. TMI ALERT!!!..........

Hubby said I didn't feel any different inside but some reports I have read said the guys thought their partner was much slicker inside so some women only use half the tube. I believe you shouldn't store it once opened so should throw it away if you only use half.

Also when used for TTC purposes I'd only use it around ov time. I'd feel I'd wasted it if used when not fertile.

emmzy

yeah i was thinking as its quite expensive for only a wee amount only to use it a few times round OV. Its not the feel that matters too much it was just the minty one put us off ever using any lube again lol

yey for kencokenco and her AF

OH told me today about another little slapper he works with her boyfriend and shes pregnant again with her second accident and it threw me over the edge i sat there and told him how sh*t i feel and like im a failure cos i cant give him a baby and i know he wants one, he told me the same he thinks its his fault ect and we agreed to call the doctors tomorrow. Im terrified but i need to know and stuff so after ignoring all your (helpful but scary) advice for ages youll be glad to know im biting the bullet and going

How was Take That kmckee? Im jealous I wanted to go but the boyzone tickets set my wedding fund back by over a week

becs

:rotfl:Shelly! For one awful moment there I was on a completely different level to you! I bought the tube of pre seed with the applicators. The tube is a 40gm tube that comes with 5gm applicators, so when you said tube I thought you meant you'd used half a 40gm tube! No wonder it felt slicker!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: