Trying For a Baby II

**confuzzled**

Hi all

Well feeling loads happier now, back to bd'ing YAY!!
Think Dh is seeing it as a chore at the moment:mad: With any luck I can liven things up a bit this evening.....not had a fun night-in for a while;):D

EA thats a complete bargain for the reception:D Do you have to pay to register?? If so, is it worth it to become members??

Boo to anyone who has had AF arrive:mad: And fingers crossed to those in the 2ww.........
.............And sticky babydust to EVERYONE:D:D

xxxx

Evansangel

Yeah the membership fee is £24 for unlimited use of the club between july09 and oct 2010. They hold music nights and bingo nights ect, and they have avery cheap bar.
And if OH joins i get in for free so technically its £12 each

Wooo for BD'ing!! What CD are you on?


xxx

**confuzzled**

Hey thats not too bad then....and you can't go wrong with cheap beer can you?? Sounds like my parents local cricket club, its well ace, everythings really cheap and it's like having a huge family when you walk in there........oh I miss home:(

I'm on CD11 and have a funny feeling this cycle will be looooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnngggggg!!!!!!!:mad: But will wait and see, still not temping etc just keeping a check of what days I'm on.....frightened to death that I'll become obsessive about it all:rolleyes: Especially as I'm the kind of person to become easily obsessed or addicted to doing things:o
Dh reckons it's a (not so)mild case of OCD:rotfl:

Did your cycles go back to normal after your mc???

Evansangel

Almost back to normal, mine is usually 29 days, but this was 32 days. And i OV'd on day 21 instead of day 18.

Im on CD10 atm, *sigh*

I keep forgetting to temp lol.
My OH said im getting obbsessed with it all lol. So im purposly not talking about it to prove him wrong

How are you feeling since the mc? xxx

**confuzzled**

I was on 29 days before so just gotta sit it out I suppose...assuming I don't get 'caught' that is;) Gotta be positive:D

I'm worried I'll become obsessed coz if things don't go as they 'should' I'd panic and end up stressed, which obv. isn't good:rolleyes:
You'll have to become obsessed with the wedding plans instead:D


Physically I've been ok, was at hospital last week to make sure the it had all cleared naturally and it had..thank god! Had a few weird crampy feelings though and freaked me out a bit...why don't they tell you about these things
Emotionally it's been hard but we're more positive again now:D Although had a set back the other night, ended up in having a tantrum over why life isn't fair hehehe.........think my neighbour is pg:mad::mad: Cowbag!! Either that or shes just put weight on around the middle and doesn't know how to dress to her size!(This is what I'm secretly hoping for;)) lol

Evansangel

**confuzzled** wrote: »

I was on 29 days before so just gotta sit it out I suppose...assuming I don't get 'caught' that is;) Gotta be positive:D

I'm worried I'll become obsessed coz if things don't go as they 'should' I'd panic and end up stressed, which obv. isn't good:rolleyes:
You'll have to become obsessed with the wedding plans instead:D


Physically I've been ok, was at hospital last week to make sure the it had all cleared naturally and it had..thank god! Had a few weird crampy feelings though and freaked me out a bit...why don't they tell you about these things
Emotionally it's been hard but we're more positive again now:D Although had a set back the other night, ended up in having a tantrum over why life isn't fair hehehe.........think my neighbour is pg:mad::mad: Cowbag!! Either that or shes just put weight on around the middle and doesn't know how to dress to her size!(This is what I'm secretly hoping for;)) lol

:rotfl:

I am coming a bit obbsessed about the wedding plans, all of a sudden its only a year away! :eek:

Ah, i sympathise with you about the tantrums. I declared hatred for every pregnant woman i know, especially the ones who i didn't think deserved it :rotfl:

When my first AF came after the mc, i cried and called my mum as Oh litterally left for work. Then i called my dad to cry a bit more, but it got alot better.

I only wished the hospital would tell me about the blood clots! I thought something was wrong with me lol.

x x

**confuzzled**

Evansangel wrote: »

:rotfl:

I am coming a bit obbsessed about the wedding plans, all of a sudden its only a year away! :eek:

Ah, i sympathise with you about the tantrums. I declared hatred for every pregnant woman i know, especially the ones who i didn't think deserved it :rotfl:

When my first AF came after the mc, i cried and called my mum as Oh litterally left for work. Then i called my dad to cry a bit more, but it got alot better.

I only wished the hospital would tell me about the blood clots! I thought something was wrong with me lol.

x x

Yup I got warned about those, I normally clot anyway(tmi:o) but nowhere near the size of those things:eek: I was almost convinced I'd need a blood transfusion at 1 point:rotfl:

I wouldn't mind so much if she was a bit older than me but I swear she's only about 12!!!! Ok, maybe not, probably more like 20/21ish:o but still it's not fair, sometimes I wish I'd have been reckless in my early 20s but then I wouldn't have my gorgeous Dh so probably wouldn't be as important to me:p

Ooo you should become obsessed with wedding plans, its great, make the most of it coz once it's over you'll start thinking
1/ Is that it?!?!?!
2/ what will I do now??(although you'll have had a baby by then;) so maybe not so much)
and then a week or so after it you'll get the post-wedding blues(mine lasted 2months:o):rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Although I gotta admit we're still in our honeymoon stage and it's been 14months now:T

You decided on a dress yet?

musogirl295

I posted yesterday about how I had started really light bleeding a couple of nights ago, which would be about a week early for my period. I'm normally pretty regular and its always quite heavy to start with. I thought it was a bit strange but I resigned myself to the fact that it was just my period trying to play mind games with me the first month of ttc! As of last night the light bleeding as stopped completely. So I had about 2 days of incredibly light bleeding (only noticible when wiping) and then nothing. Somebody mentioned impantation bleeding but having done a bit of research the dates don't really add up for it to be that.

It's really frustrating! If period had come as usual it would be ok cos its only first month and it would give me some dates to work from, but if I take that as my period it completely throws my ff chart out.

Arrrrgggggg!

Positive thoughts to all those waiting on results xx

**confuzzled**

musogirl295 wrote: »

I posted yesterday about how I had started really light bleeding a couple of nights ago, which would be about a week early for my period. I'm normally pretty regular and its always quite heavy to start with. I thought it was a bit strange but I resigned myself to the fact that it was just my period trying to play mind games with me the first month of ttc! As of last night the light bleeding as stopped completely. So I had about 2 days of incredibly light bleeding (only noticible when wiping) and then nothing. Somebody mentioned impantation bleeding but having done a bit of research the dates don't really add up for it to be that.

It's really frustrating! If period had come as usual it would be ok cos its only first month and it would give me some dates to work from, but if I take that as my period it completely throws my ff chart out.

Arrrrgggggg!

Positive thoughts to all those waiting on results xx

Could it be an amzingly light period???
I've had the same a couple of times and I put it down to either ridiculously light period(I am blessed with light ones anyway:D)
or the other reason, could be....erm.......*ahem* more energetic bding?:o:o:o:o Especially if you're bding more frequently than you used to

Thats about as sensitive I can put it am afraid but I'm sure you all know what I'm getting at:o:p

Evansangel

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Yup I got warned about those, I normally clot anyway(tmi:o) but nowhere near the size of those things:eek: I was almost convinced I'd need a blood transfusion at 1 point:rotfl:

I wouldn't mind so much if she was a bit older than me but I swear she's only about 12!!!! Ok, maybe not, probably more like 20/21ish:o but still it's not fair, sometimes I wish I'd have been reckless in my early 20s but then I wouldn't have my gorgeous Dh so probably wouldn't be as important to me:p

Ooo you should become obsessed with wedding plans, its great, make the most of it coz once it's over you'll start thinking
1/ Is that it?!?!?!
2/ what will I do now??(although you'll have had a baby by then;) so maybe not so much)
and then a week or so after it you'll get the post-wedding blues(mine lasted 2months:o):rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Although I gotta admit we're still in our honeymoon stage and it's been 14months now:T

You decided on a dress yet?

Well i found a lovely dress on landy bridal. Its very me Buuut... because of the mc, the timing for a baby is off a bit lol. So i could end up being pregnant at our wedding! :eek:
So i got to leave a dress until maybe January

Haha im 20 But i do know what you mean, my friend fell pregnant with by mistake when she was 17! infact i know quite alot of teenage mums.. I need to assess my friend situation lol. :rotfl:

I keep making random little lists on my laptop, and am designing invites etc. But we're going to start buying bits for the wedding week by week. The small things like servettes etc.

Well my first AF had clots in it to, which scared me but atfer reasurance from the ladies on here i was ok with it lol.

During the actual bleeding from the mc, when i wiped a weird hard clot thing was on the tissue and it was pink. (tmi, and yes i looked lol) but it scred me so much i just dropped it down the loo. I dont know what it was as i had an ERPC...

x x