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Trying For a Baby II

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  • nunnygirl
    nunnygirl Posts: 2,206 Forumite
    becs, the 4 BFN are from my last AF, she was 3 days late

    I have had the same symptoms since last month, my last AF was only 3 days long and very light, wasn't even enough to use a tampon (I regularly bleed for 6 days+ and it's usually quite heavy)

    I spoke to my SIL who said the bleeding could have been decidual bleeding and to wait until after this AF has/hasn't been


    I'm not getting my hopes up, I'd just like to know if I am pregnant or if I need to go to the doctors about something more serious!!
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  • nickynoo08
    nickynoo08 Posts: 1,860 Forumite
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    Right i'm now even more confused if thats at all possible. I decided to do a test just to see. Only thing was i did an ov test by mistake and it says i'm ready to ov AGAIN!!!!! According to my ov test i already ovd on the 10th of this month so !!!!!! is going on with me now? I thought i was due my af next thru/fri but this will now (if correct of course) put it back to the end of this month. I'm totally baffled. HELP!!!!
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  • thanks nunny for telling me how i was baffled, my bbs are still warm on the inside, never had that before, not even when i was pg with my dd, just ordered some cheapy tests from ebay
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  • kencokenco
    kencokenco Posts: 120 Forumite
    Hi Ladies JUst popped in to give you an update.

    WELL after much soul searching over the weekend and the lovely kind wise words from you all, Along with my partners glimmer of hope. We have decided to go private for a second opinion,

    We decided this because as my partner rightly said IF we dont, we may well be forever saying what if we did do that??

    Im not gonna get my hopes up but will do this just to put my mind at rest really.I really do not know what else to do or try.

    So just really wanted to let you all know the status as it stands now.

    AND GOODLUCK TO ALL OF YOU.
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  • becs
    becs Posts: 2,101 Forumite
    Ah Kencokenco,
    I'm really pleased to hear that, I think as you say for your own peace of mind it's definately best to leave no stone unturned as they say. I really hope that they can give you some better advice and some hope.:grouphug: .
  • Leopardlady
    Leopardlady Posts: 1,264 Forumite
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    Morning everyone :)

    huge hugs to kenckenco, i hope that the more info you get the better your decisions become :)

    I am on CD 12 and we have started bding, so really hopeful this month, i just hope my darling hubby can find the energy after very long days at work :)

    Good luck all, and welcome to all the newbies, it is good to see more people on here, lets hope we can all move over to the pg board and let others take over here:)

    Baby dust to all :)
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  • MadMac_2
    MadMac_2 Posts: 1,173 Forumite
    Hi Kencokenco, thank you so much for the update. I will keep everything crossed for you. Let us know when you can! x

    Welcome skintsaver and other newbies - wow! We could have lots of DD or DS arriving in the Christmas holiday season! Not ideal I know, but I wouldn't care at all, would just be joyous to have one (or two, or three, I don't mind) so good luck to all and keep up the good work x
  • elastigirl
    elastigirl Posts: 581 Forumite
    Thanks nikkabella i got the ov tests you sent and i had to try one out straight the way as not really had a proper AF just spotting since ectopic so wanted to see what was happening. It was a neg thought it would be but good to know. I will now wait till after AF when ever that may be :confused:
    On a positive note me and dh bd without protection for the first time since too whoop whoop! As i can (get the fan fayre out) officially start ttc It was really nice as it was spontaneous and we didn't really think about it, But just as we are get started he has gone away on a course for a week now. Never mind he will have a nice home coming. sorry tmi

    oh i forgot i went out for my meal last night i mentioned before and i was a bit annoyed that not one of my friends asked how i was. I know i didn't want them going on and asking lots of questions about it. But a little how are you and take care would have been nice. They can't win with me can they lol My best friend out of that group didn't even sit next to me or speak to me all night!, it was her birthday and all her presents and cards were on the place setting next to me and she chosse to move to another seat! i guess she just didn't know what to say. Ive got a feeling she may be pg so may be why she stayed away?


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  • nunnygirl
    nunnygirl Posts: 2,206 Forumite
    Afternoon everyone, hope we're all well

    Just thought I'd pop in and say good luck to all who need/want it

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  • Hello everyone . . .. just a quick one on CD12, low on CBFM, but beginning of fertile cm I think, trying to get DH in the mood, and his front tooth (was capped so a lump attached to a screw!) has fallen out. No emergency dentists in our area, so has to get in sorted in morning. He says BDing is now out this week. . . . I could cry .... hopefully it's just an initial response. Am I so selfish? sorry for rant
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