MSE Parent Club - Part 2

SeptemberBaby_2

Mazcabs wrote: »

Thats the thing Sami_Bee, not sure if it will be 2009 or 2010. Cant get to the drs until next Tuesday cos of BH. Guess I need to have a long think about dates and try and remember !!

Blimey where the EDD been back 4 pages and cant find it yet

I don't think the Dr will be much help with your dates if you're not sure of your LMP so it might be a little wait until scan day .

xx

ella_ella_ella

Congratulations Mazcabs:j

Definatley blooming Sami

SeptemberBaby_2

keelykat wrote: »

I thought i'd stumbled into the pregnancy board then! phew!

:rotfl:I was just about to post that! :rotfl:

xx

Mazcabs

SeptemberBaby wrote: »

I don't think the Dr will be much help with your dates if you're not sure of your LMP so it might be a little wait until scan day .

xx

No guess not but have to see her anyway to 'book in'. OH was taken aback at first but now keeps talking about which estate car to buy...

ladybirdintheuk

Oh, congrats Maz! Weezl, Izzy is still only doing about 6-7 hours at night before getting hungry (we had one night with 8 hours last week, but sadly that seems to have been a flky one-off!) and she is nearly 15 weeks. I just follow her lead and feed her when she yells at me!

feelinggood_2

Howdy all. Thought I'd update you as you were all so lovely when I was struggling earlier. Things are still incredibly hard, so went to spend the weekend with my Mum. Got some sleep, cried all weekend and then really panicked about coming home. Decided it was sensible to come back today so I could go to Pyschiatrist appointment. Phone just rang and appointment is cancelled, so I've booked an emergency appointment with the GP. Not sure he will be willing to help, with me being under a Pysch, he might just refuse. I'm planning on going back to Mums tonight, can't really cope alone. If GP can't/won't prescribe anything, not sure what I'll do. Pysch can't rearrange till next week at least. CPN is off sick. Mental Health team pretty much deserted me :-/

Sami_Bee

nadnad wrote: »

Sami - what a lovely little bump you've got! all neat and nice.

:rotfl:doesn't feel like it
Christopher has been a little too nice about letting me sleep in at the mo - eek!
Today he came downstairs and played for a bit and then attempted to change his own nappy after a pooh - thank god it was a solid one and I woke up before he'd sat down anywhere nappy-less!!
I'm getting a stair gate for upstairs today - bet you couldn't have guessed that

Oh I can throughly recommend the cozy coupe to everyone, Chris is currently sat in his watching ITNG he only gets out to eat and change nappy since he got it :rotfl:

Also got him the kid tough camera to put away for Christmas - was half usual price at just under £30 so I feel very good getting it now (I never thought I'd be organised enough to have Christmas presents this early LOL)

ella_ella_ella

I never read or followed any books with Natasha, just did what she wanted to do

She dropped her feeds (apart from this last one that she still has) when it said she would and slept through from 8 weeks so I was really really lucky

keelykat

:grouphug: Sending big hugs (the ones on here look rather dodgy though sorry!)

I was wondering how you were. Did it help being with your mom? Mine was suprisingly helpfull when i rang her in a major state the first week that my OH went back to work and rushed over in taxi to calm me down!

Is your HV any good? I spoke to her a couple of times about how I was feeling, not sure she said a lot to help but getting things off my chest did help a bit

Wish I could come and help you, i really do. xx

feelinggood wrote: »

Howdy all. Thought I'd update you as you were all so lovely when I was struggling earlier. Things are still incredibly hard, so went to spend the weekend with my Mum. Got some sleep, cried all weekend and then really panicked about coming home. Decided it was sensible to come back today so I could go to Pyschiatrist appointment. Phone just rang and appointment is cancelled, so I've booked an emergency appointment with the GP. Not sure he will be willing to help, with me being under a Pysch, he might just refuse. I'm planning on going back to Mums tonight, can't really cope alone. If GP can't/won't prescribe anything, not sure what I'll do. Pysch can't rearrange till next week at least. CPN is off sick. Mental Health team pretty much deserted me :-/

feelinggood_2

keelykat wrote: »

:grouphug: Sending big hugs (the ones on here look rather dodgy though sorry!)

I was wondering how you were. Did it help being with your mom? Mine was suprisingly helpfull when i rang her in a major state the first week that my OH went back to work and rushed over in taxi to calm me down!

Is your HV any good? I spoke to her a couple of times about how I was feeling, not sure she said a lot to help but getting things off my chest did help a bit

Wish I could come and help you, i really do. xx

HV phoned this morning, asking to visit tomorrow. I explained that I wasn't coping home alone, and I was going to stay with my Mum for a week. She wished me a nice time and said she'd phone when I got back!

Midwife is due to visit this morning, so will see what she says about things.

Mum has been brilliant, she did a couple of night feeds so I could sleep, told me how well I'm doing, gave lots of reassurance and a few hugs (very rare from my Mum!). I feel bad for being so 'demanding', but the thought of being home just terrifies me. I'm counting down the minutes till I can go back.