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MSE Parent Club - Part 2

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  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    I'm 22, and this is the first baby (can you tell?!).
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Krystaltips
    Krystaltips Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    Caz, information on breastfeeding and aneasthetics here: http://www.breastfeedingnetwork.org.uk/pdfs/Day_Surgery_and_Breastfeeding_March_2009.pdf
    A very proud Mummy to 3 beautiful girls... I do pity my husband though, he's the one to suffer the hormones...
    Krystal is so smart and funny and wonderful I am struck dumb in awe in her presence.

  • Millie's_Mum
    Millie's_Mum Posts: 1,199 Forumite
    I'm 34, 35 in August and have Millie 5, and Eloise 7 weeks, (weighed today 8lb 12oz, yay!) you lot are all so young you are making me feel like a pensioner!
    MFW Start Sep 07 £79484, Now £58774
  • keelykat
    keelykat Posts: 3,341 Forumite
    I'm 34, 35 in August and have Millie 5, and Eloise 7 weeks, (weighed today 8lb 12oz, yay!) you lot are all so young you are making me feel like a pensioner!

    I may be classed as young (LOL) but my hubby is older then me-he's 38 :)
    Mommy to Elliot (5) and Lewis (born xmas eve 11!)
  • 3onitsway
    3onitsway Posts: 4,000 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Its ok Millies Mum = I'll take over as token pensioner!!

    I'm 37 and have Joe 11 (12 next month), Liv 8 1/2 and Violet 10 weeks.

    A couple of girls from my school year are already grandmas!!:eek:

    But I only feel about 25 :D
    :beer:
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,639 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    D'you know, I don't even remember asking if it would be OK to feed baby when I got home ... just assumed it would, I think! :o

    Given that the hospital weren't expecting to have me overnight, they were great. Admittedly I was refusing to stay (even though I was up-chucking with gay abandon) because of feeding him overnight, but they had no problem with DH going to get him and the travel cot. And they put me in a single room, the ONLY time I've ever had one!

    Of course, once I'd said I'd stay, I stopped up-chucking. :rotfl:

    And they didn't want me to lift him, in case I burst my tiny stitches, which was fine except that every time I rang the bell to get them to lift him back into his cot he woke up and started howling as they went out! :rotfl: In the end I put him back in myself.
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  • ella_ella_ella
    ella_ella_ella Posts: 1,067 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    keelykat wrote: »
    I may be classed as young (LOL) but my hubby is older then me-he's 38 :)

    My husband is 42 - 14 years older than me!
    :heart: I love my gorgeous little girl :heart:
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    Savvy_Sue wrote: »
    All I know is that I had a GA first thing, and I was feeding that night.

    Mind you I would want to know what the success rate is for this 'new' method - I presume someone's been doing it somewhere else rather than you are the first 5 ever in the world? And, if they're not blowing you up with gas, do they have to give you a GA? Can you not have an epidural? I was told I couldn't have an epi because of the gas. :confused:

    :rotfl: Men and their bits! Mine was too much of a wimp too ...

    BTW, I am old enough to be a grandma but I'm not. I was a late starter, and the boys seem uninterested in girls. Sigh.
    Good point there Caz - I know how damn fertile you are you don't want another accident do you (not that you don't want and love ur kids but you know what I mean!!) xx
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • Krystaltips
    Krystaltips Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    Savvy_Sue wrote: »
    D'you know, I don't even remember asking if it would be OK to feed baby when I got home ... just assumed it would, I think! :o

    Given that the hospital weren't expecting to have me overnight, they were great. Admittedly I was refusing to stay (even though I was up-chucking with gay abandon) because of feeding him overnight, but they had no problem with DH going to get him and the travel cot. And they put me in a single room, the ONLY time I've ever had one!

    Of course, once I'd said I'd stay, I stopped up-chucking. :rotfl:

    And they didn't want me to lift him, in case I burst my tiny stitches, which was fine except that every time I rang the bell to get them to lift him back into his cot he woke up and started howling as they went out! :rotfl: In the end I put him back in myself.
    When I had my tonsils out, breastfeeding was such a normal 'unthinking' thing for me, I almost forgot to mention it... When I did the nurse on the ward told me I should of bought the baby in with me... Until I mentioned she was 2....
    A very proud Mummy to 3 beautiful girls... I do pity my husband though, he's the one to suffer the hormones...
    Krystal is so smart and funny and wonderful I am struck dumb in awe in her presence.

  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    3onitsway wrote: »
    Its ok Millies Mum = I'll take over as token pensioner!!

    I'm 37 and have Joe 11 (12 next month), Liv 8 1/2 and Violet 10 weeks.

    A couple of girls from my school year are already grandmas!!:eek:

    But I only feel about 25 :D
    ooh what is Liv short for - if anything? I think it sounds lovely! Not that it really matter coz I've got another smelly boy in here :p
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
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