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Keeping Positive's - Into the new years diary

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  • I think I am ready for work. Feeling alot calmer, less mood, swings starting to have a bit more energy. I dont feel ill enough to be off work any longer. My collegues have said things are better than before xmas and I think my Boss will ease me back into things so can but try. If it goes wrong again I might have to think of a career change. Theres more to life than a career and work.

    Again similar with you OH and I can too easily back down where we are tired. Due to this rest we are working together so the kids are not getting away with so much.

    DD1 came down but didnt say a word except to ask about baking. I was most surprised was getting ready for round 2. She has done the fairy cakes almost all on her own (very proud DD!). Im working on the wraps.
    :j
    May 2013 new beginnings:j
  • hugs for you...there is more to life than career but I think its just finding the balance...re going babck to work your boss has a duty to support you in return o work - esp when youve been on the sick....just go slow and do what you can. Do you have a return to work intervie? If so can you try and work out an easy return to work - maybe shorter days and doing som work from home? Just a thought...
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • Thanks ISOM

    Yes need a return to work interview, thats booked for Monday 23rd 9am. Doc has written on sick note that part time recommended for first two-three weeks. Dont know how that works because Ill be signed back to work next friday. Ill see what happens then.

    Good day today: Spent some us time with OH and been out with old work colleagues tonight. Only had a half because of the meds which worked out well as I dont have my usual pre bed headache.

    Spends:
    £28 school dinners
    £50 groceries
    £17.00 meal and drinks
    £10 OH for Mcds
    :j
    May 2013 new beginnings:j
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,676 Ambassador
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    Glad u had a good day yesterday :)
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
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    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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  • Quiet couple of days spent £2 on kids yesterday and did barely anything housework wise. NSD today and lazed until mid pm. Washed up, made some tortilla dough and cooked dinner.

    Saved on haircuts my usual neighbour been really busy later and had family issues so go another neighbour to do OH and Kids for nowt. I do usually pay her a bit even though she says no but this time taking her to the food outlet shop I love so we can both stock up. Ill still give her some cash or maybe some BS stuff just need to time it.

    Hope all ok xx
    :j
    May 2013 new beginnings:j
  • List of things to do in the half term - 1 week until W***!

    Sort kids toys out with them
    Tidy and declutter our room
    Tidy and sort BS stuff
    More baking
    Ensure kitchen stays tidy and decluttered
    Redo kitchen floor
    Clean fridge
    Clean Oven :eek: :eek: :eek: cant tell you the last time I did that


    This is just a list so nobody panic. Ill get some done hopefully more than half but whateveer will be at my own pace.
    :j
    May 2013 new beginnings:j
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,676 Ambassador
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    If you find out how to keep the kitchen Tidy & decluttered then PLMK pretty damm quick.I despair of mine I really do.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • :rotfl: Beanielou although what does PLMK mean?

    I can try at least. At the moment it doesnt take much to clear and tidy compared to the week before I would like to keep it that way for as long as possible. I have given up on the front room though leaving that to OH!
    :j
    May 2013 new beginnings:j
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,676 Ambassador
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    Its just a quick way of saying please let me know.I only type with one finger due to my disability so Im quite slow so always looking for ways to cut down what I type as my comuter will not support voice recognition software.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Oh Beanie, sorry to hear thats why you used the acronym ... I confess, I didn't know what it meant either :confused: ... glad somebody else asked (nods happily to KP :D) ....

    a tidy and decluttered kitchen ... not on this planet! :p And I'm finally recognising it - mine's going to get a little bit decluttered next week, as I've finally finished the most recent batch of paperwork (as finished as its going to get, anyway) - I need to paint some of the bare plaster, eek. And the sunnier it gets, the more the dirt shows up! :eek:Rats!!!! :mad: :rotfl:

    I do enjoy smilies sometimes ... they say so much!
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
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