Depression Support Thread

geminilady

Amber_Sunshine wrote: »

I need to talk

I am here Amber whats up?

Amber_Sunshine

well you know (?) that Mr S and I are now living apart, but we are still in contact, well I went round tonight (at his invitation), but apparently I stayed too long, we ended up having a huge row, because I just wanted to know if there was hope for the future. He siad he doesn;t know about the future, but for now he just wants to be friends, yet last week he was saying that there might be hope. I've been crying my eyes out for the last 1.5 hours, cos it's a no/win situation for me, I can't just be friends and the altrenative os not to see him.

Right now I !!!!ing hate existing

Amber_Sunshine

I don't expect any advice, cos you don't know him, and I can't understand it myself

geminilady

Amber_Sunshine wrote: »

well you know (?) that Mr S and I are now living apart, but we are still in contact, well I went round tonight (at his invitation), but apparently I stayed too long, we ended up having a huge row, because I just wanted to know if there was hope for the future. He siad he doesn;t know about the future, but for now he just wants to be friends, yet last week he was saying that there might be hope. I've been crying my eyes out for the last 1.5 hours, cos it's a no/win situation for me, I can't just be friends and the altrenative os not to see him.

Right now I !!!!ing hate existing

It is never easy when a relationship breaks down but it sounds like he does not know what he wants,he must still care or why invite you round? but if you cannot just be friends at the moment it might be better not to see him for a while.It might give him time to think and realise that he misses you.

timcrips

My mother suffered for many years with depression, I lost her about 12 years ago when I was in my late teens. I miss her a great deal and only wish she new how loved she was. Mum I love you. She left a large part of her money to the Samaritans, please don't feel like weird calling them, they cant help everyone, but you'll only know if you call them. They helped me a great deal, I was a mess, but thanks to them and some other very special people I now have a good life and support them all the time. their number is 08457 90 90 90 or http://www.samaritans.org/

They are open 24/7

Amber_Sunshine

I don't know, Gem ... you may be right, but even after 10 days apart, I know he misses me, but I think he's decided I'm too much like hard work, too demanding

Amber_Sunshine

Tim, the Smaritans are a great organisation, bt I don't think they can help me personally, I talk to a psychologist, to a psychiatrist, to friends .... they can't repair my relationship and frankly I'm tired of talking, it never seems to get me anywhere.

Sorry if that sounds ngrateful, I don't mean to, but it's turned out a !!!!!! evening and I'm just drained. I guess I ought to go to bed, we're an hour ahead.

Amber_Sunshine

We're both in our late thirties, it's not like we're that young ... and I'm a black and white, one extreme or the other person ... either he love sme or he doesn't .... oh, I'm off to bed, before I start making even less sense. Night all

timcrips

Hi

Yeah i agree sometimes nobody can help. The Samaritans are good listners, funny thing is I tried for ages to get people including the Samaritans to tell me what the answer is. I use the Samaritans as a way of getting an unbiased opinion. Have you ever called them? understand if you dont want to answer online. But its worth a try if your feeling crappy its sometimes hard to see why somthing someone else is suggesting would help.

on the other point sleep is very important and so yeah go to bed lol

Nite mate.

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