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ex and would be ex-gamblers support thread

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  • How is everyone doing? Staying strong?
    Gambling is the son of avarice and the father of despair

    Luck sometimes visits a fool, but it never sits down with him
  • cantcope
    cantcope Posts: 1,886 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Hi all, i posted a few days ago but its been removed. Along with the posts i reported....
    All ok here. Getting used to motherhood. Had my first real urge to gamble in years last week. was only a fleeting thought but enough to make me pick up the phone to speak to a few members from my GA meetings.
    Just goes to show that it can creep up on you no matter how long you dont gamble for.
    Reminded me that i need my meetings more than ever.
    Last bet : 26th Oct 2006:j Debt free 25th Feb 2008:j Living "my" dream:T
  • CC - Well done on resisting the urge! You are doing exceptionally well! Keep it up.

    Glad to hear that you are getting used to motherhood!
    Gambling is the son of avarice and the father of despair

    Luck sometimes visits a fool, but it never sits down with him
  • well done cantcope, glad motherhood is going well

    no relapses for me, hurrah!
  • Emma - I have replied to your PM and am reasking that you keep your contact with me there rather than here hun - feel very disrespectful to those who are here for support having to sift through your posts to me :(

    Cantcope - congrats on motherhood and congrats also for resisting the urge. I am thankful in one sense that my monies were not paid to me this weekend as I am feeling so, so low that I don't think I would have had the strength to ignore the urges very well. BUT I am doing great - no internet at home either which will obviously help!

    Stay strong all xxxx
    Sealed Pot Challenge
    Member # 2026
    :A
  • cantcope
    cantcope Posts: 1,886 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    I suggest you contact the police if you are owed money. This isn't the place to chase for it and clearly it is getting you nowhere.
    Have some respect for others on here.
    Last bet : 26th Oct 2006:j Debt free 25th Feb 2008:j Living "my" dream:T
  • cantcope
    cantcope Posts: 1,886 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Why do you think your posts are relevant? This is for ex and would be ex gamblers. It is not a thread for debt collecting.
    Why would you give a stranger money? I don't know. Why did you?

    Your posts are removed because they get reported by people you are upsetting.
    Again I urge you to contact the police or perhaps trading standards?
    This is not the place for debt collecting.
    Last bet : 26th Oct 2006:j Debt free 25th Feb 2008:j Living "my" dream:T
  • david01010
    david01010 Posts: 19 Forumite
    edited 18 March 2013 at 9:04AM
    Hi all..

    Just blew all the money I have last night... Only had 2 relapses... 1 for half my wages. 1 for all my money.. Thats all you need..

    I feel sick.

    ( I know your supposed to be my steering wheel, not just my spare tyre.. )
  • cantcope
    cantcope Posts: 1,886 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    David was there a trigger? Bored? Down? Stressed?
    Make sure you get all the necessary blocks put in place now while it still hurts to make it harder in future should you feel tempted again.
    Last bet : 26th Oct 2006:j Debt free 25th Feb 2008:j Living "my" dream:T
  • hey CC - how are you now? healing going better? how is little lewis?

    David - yes was there a trigger?
    IF YOU THINK YOU ARE SO CLEVER, THEN WHY ARE'NT YOU RICH?
    Debt = [STRIKE]21,003.22[/STRIKE] 0! :j/Car [STRIKE]4500[/STRIKE] 2875
    Savings 12k in 2013: NUMBER 093 = 1100.31/4000
    Wedding fund 1045/3500 LOL!

    Crazy Clothes 2013 NO 002= 376.64/500/No MoreBooks 0/30
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