Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

I am eating way to much but from tomorrow decided have to get a grip as not being healthy at all and the only one suffering is me.


He has been on the phone this morning being nicey nicey advising he will agree from my solicitor to pay x x x etc ,so if he wants to do this then so be it

Forgetmenot68

Kizzy, I posted a couple of weeks and have lurked since. Late last night I caught up with what's been going on and just wanted to add some hugs. Hope it goes OK today, I really feel for you.

FMN xx

kizzykizzywizzy

Still overdrawn in the bank, but I have the money here to put in - will do that monday - I'll only have interest put on as not over my o/d limit.
I've hardly done any shopping, just Asda the other day, but then I'm not eating much & most of the stuff was for them.
I've probably spent about the same as usual as I gave him £50 as he had no money & no cash card & he does need to give his sister some.
My Sisters phone bill was £300 when her husband cheated:eek:

scottishfreebiehunter

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:phone bill in my oh name and good help what mine will be been calling australia,mobiles etc etc:T:T

kizzykizzywizzy

Right I'm going quickly hoover the front room, don't want to leave any crumbs for the mouse!
Then I'm going to start my ironing, don't want to look as though I'm sitting here waiting on him, have also put some washing on the line, so not doing too badly
See you all this afternoon

beanielou

Hope it all goes well for you hun.

scottishfreebiehunter

Hope all goes well kizzyxxxxxx


I need to sort out washing and keep trying to push myself though hard as hell

Tesco_points_addict

lotties_mum wrote: »

have you tried st johns wort?

Just a warning, although St.Johns Wort is very good it reacts with certain medicines including the contraceptive pill and the implant. (Sorry i know this is probably not relevant to you at the moment but though you should be aware!)

Also Kizzy, the more 'needy' someone appears, the less the other side respects them, the less 'needy' the more atractive they become.

Sorry 'needy probably the wrong word but i'm sure you will understand what I am trying to say x

Good luck hun

TPA x

PS I lov the chilli rubbed on the underpants:rotfl: :rotfl:

sparkle1_2

Hi there goinig through the same myself at the moment. 2 children 9 and 5 years old Husband moved out in July (the weekend my daughters appendix burst) I am with you all the way I am terrified about money, my mortgage comes out of penalties in February cant even think about that at the moment. I had been with my husband since I was 15 .....18 years in total take every day as it comes you are not responsible for this and although I firmly believe in the whole family thing my happy ever after just wasnt going to happen. I survived a holiday with my ex for a week and found that the kids benefited loads as the whole holiday revolved around what they wanted and good traditional sea side fun, burrying each other up to the neck in the sand, frisbee etc just kept away from the subject of 'us'

gerturdeanna

He sat there just watching TV with them!! Thats good ofr their developmenet isn't it!! GRRR! He said he's going out later to see a house- yeah right -don't believe him.
I want him to be stuck with the house - cos if I stay, which is what was intended originally cos its a mortgage, I wouldn't get any help with mortgage bill from benefits or whatever - therefore would be relying on him to py mortgage and chances are there wil be times when he doesn't pay it and then we are stuffed. At the oment, I think the best thing would be for me and the kids to move to that council house - even if it is in a rubbish estate -we can always move later if its really bad! At least then we would get help with rent etc etc