Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

getting taxi to train station in half hour and then on t oEdinburgh for me and ds to watch football.
I will try and not mention his wrotten name to ds also.
Then he said to me he would come up Tuesday and sort out money etc etc it is all so clinical:rolleyes:

Kizzy have a good day
xx

bank_of_slate

SFH does he start drinking and then make the nasty calls when he's tanked up?
...Linda xx

kizzykizzywizzy

Yes, don't you think it's a bit funny, he was playing around with me too??? ( or am I seing too much into it? ) also he was nice in the adventure park, when I was talking to my friend, when I came back over to them as DD had said she wanted to go to the other park next door, he said jokingly & not nastily at all, come on then everyone, mummy was gassing again!!

Keeping_Motivated

SFH its ok to mention OHs name to him, he is his dad, I suppose you just have to try and keep it positive and let him know that things will settle in the future etc etc. If you make the subject tabboo that could confuse him too.

God you poor thing its so hard having to juggle all your thoughts and feelings. You will do it though, us mothers have some kind of amazing unselfish strength that will see you through.

KM x

Keeping_Motivated

Kizzy I'm going to be thinking of you today and waiting for the update with baited breath. I hope you ALL have a nice day. Well I hope yours and your kids is slightly better than his I don't forgive him completely

scottishfreebiehunter

bank_of_slate wrote: »

SFH does he start drinking and then make the nasty calls when he's tanked up?
...Linda xx

yes during week it was vile and disgusting and he apologized next day as could remember nothing
And also when he is in her company he acts all I am the big man etc etc
Though when speaking to me alone he says can have what I want etc etc this is why confused
I want to make them suffer but I no wrong as I will get into trouble


Kizzy you do what is best for you and family and if you can work it out I for one will be very happy for you,if not he sounds like he wants to be a big part of youre family xxxxxxxx

kizzykizzywizzy

Off now, wish me luck

Have a great day everyone & SFH, he probably acts like that in front of her, because I expect she is jealous of you & has to be seen to be doing that to you - take care xx

GirlRacer_2

My ex is absolutely horrible to me when the 'ugly one' is in earshop (even though we've been divorced 6 yrs), yet when he's at work he quite often phones me up for a friendly chat.

bank_of_slate

I wonder if these 'women' know that they're with such two faced pr!cks?

I suppose they will when one day it's them on the receiving end.
...Linda xx

Skint_Lynne

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

I want to make them suffer but I no wrong as I will get into trouble

I'm not condoning violence or anything but my friend who was pregnant when she found out her OH was messing around told me about something that happened which I found to be acceptable in the circumstances.

When she told her MIL and 2 SIL's about the c**, they went to her house and gave her a good hiding.

Now I know that a lot of people will find that to be shocking, but this thing knew my friend, knew she had a kid and knew that she was pregnant again. She was openly trying to get the OH to leave and shack up with her. And, another thing, we have since found out that she breaks marriages up as a hobby, she has done 3 so far...............

I personally would have given her a hiding as well, she totally deserved it.

SL x