Marriage over don't know where to start

chevalier

Hi all of you. I think that you are all doing very well in very difficult circumstances. And I think that not being in when they expect it is no bad thing SFH. Just have to make sure the house is secure.

I think that in the end you just have to start moving along the paperwork on the grounds that you can stop the proceedings at any stage, but also there is no point really in delaying stuff either

have good days out tomorrow
chev

gerturdeanna

OMG!! I am so hungover!! Why do kids wake up really early and jump all over you???
Anyway, what I was trying to say last night was that I nicked his phone again and there were no texts or calls of any kind (cos he had deleted them all) but her number was under her name and there was a home number also under her name!! I've got it in my phone but don't know whether to ring it later and speak to her bloke??

kizzykizzywizzy

That's a tricky one, my 1st instincts are yes, but even when I rang my husbands friend to ask if he was doing something & it took days for me to get an answer on the phone ( didn't realise he can't take phone to work ) & it made me feel ill every time I dialled the number.
I wrote down a script of what I was going to say, because my nerves were so bad & I was shaking so much, I'd probably have for gotten otherwise.
Well done for not ringing when you'd had a few.
Well I've woken up with that "empty" feeling again, who am I trying to kid? he just doesn't want me. Why even though I know he doesn't do I still have hope?

gerturdeanna

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Well I've woken up with that "empty" feeling again, who am I trying to kid? he just doesn't want me. Why even though I know he doesn't do I still have hope?

We are all going to have bad days - naturally- but don't forget,they are losing stars - we're just getting rid of the rubbish!!
Chip up!!

kizzykizzywizzy

He's not rubbish though ( to me ), he's just made 1 BIG mistake in 21 years in which he's never done anything to hurt me. I know I can forgive him.
I'll be ok later when I see him, I just miss him.
Did you say your husband is from Spain Gerturdeanna? If so make sure you hide the kids passports, don't want him doing a runner ( not meant to scare you- just a precaution )
I think I will go & make some sandwiches, I think we will go on a picnic to a reasonably local country park only £1.50 to park, & lots of woodland trails with bits for the kids to climb on.
It's weird, because it feels a bit like we are "dating" well to me it does, to him it probably feels like he's taking the kids out:o

scottishfreebiehunter

yip make sure the passports are with you at all times!
I woke up at 4.30 am with dogs going crazy lights went on outside and someone out my back garden:eek:
Going to get a bath at get out with ds ,he is still asleep though will get ready first and get train around midday
Yes kizzy got that empty feeling also not nice at all and makes me feel sick
We will all get through this fingers crossedxxxxxx

scottishfreebiehunter

I called the thing my oh seeing and was very straight to the point told her exactly what she was etc etc no raised voices swearing etc ,she never replied as was scared seemingly:rolleyes:

kizzykizzywizzy

It's amazing how calm you can be isn't it? I was like that when Husbands friends wife told me. I didn't scream rant - nothing, just thanked her for telling me

scottishfreebiehunter

:mad::mad:he has been on phone talking crap again slagging me off

gerturdeanna

Report him to the police - change your number