Marriage over don't know where to start

Buffythedebtslayer

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

I think I will as sick of being laughed at and my son now texted him and told him he will not upset and be bad to his mummy :eek:so enough is enough tomorrow will get up early and do hoovering etc get sorted and take son to football later in afternoon(for my benefit also as can have a good old oogle at the players:rotfl:,nah like footie to)


Kizzy hope you have a good weekendxx
Baggie have a good time,and kizzy do what is best for you and family

I like footballers too:o . premiership starts tomorrow! I think the no contact is the way to go, get your son away from his foul influence. don't speak to him till you need to. In fact can you not get a solicitor to deal with him? I am really not sure what I am talking about here, but if he is so horrible I 'd look for another way to get in touch.

hugsxxxxxx and have a good day tomorrowxxx

Buffythedebtslayer

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Thanks Buffy
I'm just so much happier today, to see the kids happy me happy & him not looking like he was going to top himself.
I've eaten, had a drink, which as I've said before, I don't do if I'm stressed ( opposite to most people ) probably because I think i'll lose control.
I can cope with friendship, she's not on the scene, he's not ringing or texting her whilst I'm about or mentioning her, so for now this is ok.
I can build my own life back again & I have a babysitter on tap

see that's what I mean. I'd still be at the cutting his N*ts off stage!

You have really taught me such a lot in the last few days kizzy!

xxx

scottishfreebiehunter

Thanks buffyxxx to be honest he is not acting like my oh of 13 yrs and known longer he is acting like a complete fool, he was a great husband and dad and this is why my ds is taking it so hard.
Very very sad and yes tomorrow I will make an effort for ds and not moan and groan etc etc etc etc It will be hard for us but will go that extra length for my son
SPL up here and not to many tasty sorts about though there is a few :rotfl:

forgot to add I do not keep very well and this is hurtingmore that oh thinks okay to treat me way he is

Buffythedebtslayer

you should moan and groan - well you know what i mean!vent get mad get it off your chest, you are right to feel sad this is a bad thing that has happened, but you have your son and a whole unknown future - which can be scary but could equally be brilliant.

keep posting honxxxx

scottishfreebiehunter

My mum stays in oz and they are arranging for me to go on hols soon not in next few weeks though soon and I can only thank god that I have this to look forward to.
Though said to Kizzy on phone other night bit scared as put on a bit of weight and scared of DVT :rolleyes:(I know silly moo:rotfl:)

The pain aches still and cannot believe my oh sleeping elsewhere but have to get on as we live only once

Buffythedebtslayer

A holiday in OZ wow, that is something to look forward too!

The pain does ache doesn't it? its funny really, you know logically you are better off without them and that eventually you will have a better life but it doesn't stop that pressure round your ribs, feeling lost. but you aren't lost really your heart just has to catch up with your head.

xxxxx

scottishfreebiehunter

right night all speak soonxxxxxx

head is buzzing round and round and tired

Buffythedebtslayer

sleep lots and have wonderful dreamsxxx

kizzykizzywizzy

Night night, hope tomorrow is better for you;)

I think I might go too, see you all tomorrow, will dream about nice things, as feeling really positive, that we will get on, & to be honest, we aren't very likely to get back together if we are arguing all the time anyway, & if we don't, at least we can see each other at family occasions etc, without any bad blood ( as long as the moose isn't there:o )

gerturdeanna

Right, been out witth my sis and am extemely drunk!!! I think I know her 'home phone number'. Checked his pone agin whils he is sleeping in single bed with so and daughter!! I've stored it in my phone for future usev - do I ring it and try and speak to her husband to be or what?
Not going to donanything now cos am so drunk!! Night all