Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

I couldnt help myself sorry people,I called her number and asked for my husband told he wasnt there so said oh okay you will not mind then if i come down and check and bring you his belongings ,two mins later gets call from oh gobbing off silly silly man he will regret it one day I can tell you

Ellidee

Hi Kizzy, must apologise, took so long 'composing' my post that there have been a lot of posts inbetween that I hadn't read.

Baggiebird1nil

Fair play. Now go do it girl!! I really must go to bed now!

kizzykizzywizzy

Baggiebird have a great time, I'm so glad everything worked out so well for you & that you're happy, lets hope you are still happy after the football :beer:
Ellidee, I'm in no doubt that he still loves me, no he doesn't deserve me, & yes there are plenty of others out there, but I love him!
I really think this is just the friendship card he's playing, & that's better than the !!!!!! card.
He's told me theres no chance

scottishfreebiehunter

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

Awe I'm sorry he is being so cruel to you both. It seems so selfish to cheat AND then rub your nose in it. Easier said than done but could you go and do something 'normal' with your son tomorrow and just 'try' and forget for a few hours and give you both a break. Also maybe you and your son need to make a pact not to contact the ex for a while and go quiet and let him do the contacting?

I wish you luck and hope you and your son get some peace from the pain of this soon.

Take care
KM x

I think I will as sick of being laughed at and my son now texted him and told him he will not upset and be bad to his mummy :eek:so enough is enough tomorrow will get up early and do hoovering etc get sorted and take son to football later in afternoon(for my benefit also as can have a good old oogle at the players:rotfl:,nah like footie to)


Kizzy hope you have a good weekendxx
Baggie have a good time,and kizzy do what is best for you and family

kizzykizzywizzy

Good for you SFH, O've got loads of wardrobe space now!!

Buffythedebtslayer

Kizzy I still think you are amazing.

xxxxx

Ellidee

What Buffy Said ^^ ^^ ^^ :T

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks Buffy
I'm just so much happier today, to see the kids happy me happy & him not looking like he was going to top himself.
I've eaten, had a drink, which as I've said before, I don't do if I'm stressed ( opposite to most people ) probably because I think i'll lose control.
I can cope with friendship, she's not on the scene, he's not ringing or texting her whilst I'm about or mentioning her, so for now this is ok.
I can build my own life back again & I have a babysitter on tap

scottishfreebiehunter

It is virtually making me sick at the thought though have to do this for ds as he said tonight no one loves him anymore

wish mine would play the friendly card when he is in company but well if he wants to act in this manner he will lose in the long run