Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

Looks like mine is no 3 in the b$stard list - he's not even as good as your 2 at doing that!!!
Mine sounds positively angelic compared to yours.
He'll be here in a minute, so getting nervous roast is going well, I've only put 3 dinner mats out on the table;) though I doubt I'll eat any, at least the kids will get some veg & I can get a couple of dinners out of it for my Nan.
My Dad has stopped eating again & hasn't been to the doctors, although he's promised he will, my sister said if he doesn't go today she's calling the doctor out, my Dad is grieving so much he wants to die, but sister going through divorce, me now too we just can't handle it.
Also yesterday she found out that her Son has failed all his A levels he passed in another subject, but it was one he dropped!
So if he goes back he'll be behind a year, if he doesn't she won't get so much help from Ex moneywise & will lose the house. Sister said - he can do what he wants, don't go back just to save the house, his happiness is more important my Sister is fab:A

gerturdeanna

Mine is obviosly playing dirty now!! A welcome pack from a bank has come for him today!! Time to get myself and my kids sorted now!!

bank_of_slate

gerturdeanna wrote: »

Mine is obviosly playing dirty now!! A welcome pack from a bank has come for him today!! Time to get myself and my kids sorted now!!

take it out, shred it, put it back in the envelope and give it to him
...Linda xx

Mrs_Dawn

Sorry to hear about all your money worries girls!!!!!:mad:

At least I'm lucky that my DH is still paying all the bills.

I hope you manage to sort it out.

I'm off to do some much needing decluttering, be back to catch up later.

Big ((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))) to all that need them.

gerturdeanna

Right, just rang the bank and have been accepted for my own personal account which he will never ever have acces to. Paperwork should be here next wek some time. I am NOT going to let him ruin my kids lives and mine!!

gerturdeanna

BTW - Sorry for hijacking you thread Kizzy!! Came here offering words of support of you and ended up having peps give me advice too!! hehe

scottishfreebiehunter

me to sorry as just came and butted in lol,though thanks for all everyones kind words and pms

Hope this afternoon goes okay for the kids kizzyxxxxxxxxxxx

speak soon

OberonSH

Yeah, let us know if you shoved the roast up his ar£e. The man must be daft - seeing a fuming wife who he KNOWS is going to be armed with a carving knife......

And don't forget - enough gravy means he won't taste the laxatives.....

bank_of_slate

OberonSH wrote: »

Yeah, let us know if you shoved the roast up his ar£e. The man must be daft - seeing a fuming wife who he KNOWS is going to be armed with a carving knife......

And don't forget - enough gravy means he won't taste the laxatives.....

Gravy from the cat/dog food that is!
...Linda xx

gerturdeanna

So he came home with the money in his wallet - he gave me £20 for petrol and said are we going shopping then - !!!!!!!! No way am I going playing happy families round the supermarket!!!!!!
So he has now took the kids and gone to the shops with a quick list I made. He wanted to take my car (whihch is actually my mum's) so I told him he wasn't insured on it - he is but he's not having it cos I'm getting my clothes ready for tonight and going to my sisters -we planned a nght out and thats what I'm doing!! Sis said she'll pay - won't be a heavy one though now!!