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Marriage over don't know where to start

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  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Have you tried ringing him to find out what he's playing at gertrudeanna?
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • gerturdeanna
    gerturdeanna Posts: 4,350 Forumite
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    I did ring him and he said he's put it awy for his brothers wedding at the end of the month - well sorry but the kids come first!! He says he can't put it back in as he's put it away!!
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • elj2287
    elj2287 Posts: 154 Forumite
    How rude and self centred of him!! Like you need more stress?!! Will he be the one to tell the kids their day out is ruined? xxx
  • gerturdeanna
    gerturdeanna Posts: 4,350 Forumite
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    elj2287 wrote: »
    How rude and self centred of him!! Like you need more stress?!! Will he be the one to tell the kids their day out is ruined? xxx
    Nope cos predictably he's not here and he says he's going to be late home - probably off spending the £550 on her!!
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • JoJil
    JoJil Posts: 40 Forumite
    I have just read your thread Kizzy. I don't have anything to add except to say (((((hugs))))) to you and your children and (((((hugs))))) to all the others going through this too.
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
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    just logged in to wish you all well on your journeys. being in a different time zone if you want to vent i will probably be up to reply good luck
    chev
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • GeorgeUK
    GeorgeUK Posts: 7,737 Forumite
    Chev - the human vent extractor. :D

    Good on your mate.

    Good luck ladies - hope you get closure on this soon. It's not fair to you or the kids.
    Thoughts are with you
    After falling off the gambling wagon (twice): £33,600 (24,000+ 9,600) - Original CC Debt: £7,885.91

    Dad Gift 6k ¦ Savings & Inv Tst: £2,500
    Loan 10k: £0 ¦ Dad 5.5k: £2,270 ¦ LTSB: £0 ¦ RBS: £0 ¦ Virgin £0 ¦ Egg £0

    Total Owed: £2,270 (+6k) 11/08/2011
  • pmd you regarding money as I am in same boat
    Just back into comping past few months to help me get over rubbish in life.... won Hotpoint fridge freezer, soda stream
  • I am now calling the a ss &&&&& work and if i do not get a reply will be calling the main department to put a call out for him

    I am so so angry and not sure what to do no more my ds is not eating etc and lost so much weight i am b l o o d y distraught
    Just back into comping past few months to help me get over rubbish in life.... won Hotpoint fridge freezer, soda stream
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Christ, I feel really angry for you...both!
    Why the hell does he need that much for his brother's wedding?
    more like to take his b!tch off for a weekend.
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
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