Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

The best thing is, I'm not ashamed, I have done everything I possibly could to make our lives & our childrens lives happy. I've always worked hard, doing all the decorating in the house, have sorted finances - just anything to make his life easy.
He is the one who should be ashamed.
He made me feel like I was disgusting, when he kept rejecting me & saying he didn't love me.
Now I know for sure why, I know I look really good, I know I'm not a bad person.
She honestly is NOT attractive, I even comented when he sent the picture how ugly his girlfriends were!

kizzykizzywizzy

night SL xxx

scottishfreebiehunter

me to off for night ds will just not settle xxx

take care all speak soon

Buffythedebtslayer

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

The best thing is, I'm not ashamed, I have done everything I possibly could to make our lives & our childrens lives happy. I've always worked hard, doing all the decorating in the house, have sorted finances - just anything to make his life easy.
He is the one who should be ashamed.
He made me feel like I was disgusting, when he kept rejecting me & saying he didn't love me.
Now I know for sure why, I know I look really good, I know I'm not a bad person.
She honestly is NOT attractive, I even comented when he sent the picture how ugly his girlfriends were!

That is really good Kizzy. Its a good thing to remember next time you have to see him. I have a very strong feeling you will get through this.

xxx

GeorgeUK

Kizzy - sorry for asking, but is it just the one source that has said that another woman was involved?

Just don't want any mistakes made or you to be hurt more than you have been. Earlier i was thinking of a stick of dynamite, lit, sideways!!

jinky67

Skint_Lynne wrote: »

me too, central, but at Glasgow end x

me too:D..........

kizzykizzywizzy

Night SFH oops I keep underlining things now thats a bit better!! What have I pressed???
Buffy, I am a very strong person, when I need to be.
Yes I'll get through this, but I will always have this idiot in my life & will always think of how happy we were & what a lovely life we could have had together with our children.
My Sister has got a lovely boyfriend now, after her husband cheated on her & is happy, so I know I can be, but right now the person I want to be happy with is him & that's not going to happen.
It's not even as if he's asked me to forgive him or anything, so I expect he'll be going off with her, or would rather be alone than with me.

kizzykizzywizzy

He's admitted it now, even though only one person said anything - I've been suspicious for a very long time, as he was very off with me on the phone a few times, over the last few months, which is not like him.

Buffythedebtslayer

the thing is Kizz is that man you were happy with doesn't exist now. I don't believe its a simple matter of people change- that suggests that they can change back. I just believe some people are weak and selfish. Maybe in time when you look back you will see elements of that in him - not directed at you but some where and eventually it rises to the surface.

When life takes a sudden turn it is so hard not to think about what could have been, that is the hardest thing I think. For me it always comes back to keeping busy and trying to make plans. I am suprised how long things take but I am equally suprised at what I get done and how much progress I have made.

Hope you got my Pm, any time remember.

xxxx

kizzykizzywizzy

I'm going to bed too now, I was up until gone 2am yesterday so worn out
Thanks everyone - sorry no fairytale ending