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  • Kizzy is there a friend or family member who can be with you? Or do you have someone there? :grouphug:
  • Hi kizzy if you are struggling with Edinburgh numbers in particular, could you PM Edinburghlass? I will feel really stupid if her user name has nothing to do with where she lives :o

    KM x
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
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    HI Kizzy. So sorry to hear the latest development. Does he know you've found out? HAs the woman left her husband? And I don't want to be the naysayer, but are you sure you want to phone this poor man? How would you feel if a stranger had phoned you up and told you his wife was having an affair with your husband? If you make the call make sure it is for the right reason and not out of spite and have clear in your mind exactly what you need to say.

    Big hugs babes. Its a long and rocky road ahead of you but there is a better place at the end of it. :grouphug:
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    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
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  • colnkits
    colnkits Posts: 208 Forumite
    (((kizzy)))
    I'm so sorry to hear that. At the very least it now explains some of his behaviour....but that doesn't excuse anything he's done.
    Hope you're doing ok, stay as strong as you can
  • beanielou
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    I'm really sorry Kizzy. Not sure what to say really. :(

    Me too.Chin up hun.
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  • Mudbath
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    Just wanted to add my hugs xxx
  • GeorgeUK
    GeorgeUK Posts: 7,737 Forumite
    I work in Edinburgh - usually https://www.bt.com/directory-enquiries has any numbers we need.

    So sorry to hear this Kizzy. Just make sure you get the right number before letting rip though.

    I hate men :(
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  • mumoftwins
    mumoftwins Posts: 2,498 Forumite
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    Kizzy,

    What do you know about her? If you want to pm me thats fine and we'll put our heads together and see what we can do xx
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  • Skint_Lynne
    Skint_Lynne Posts: 1,363 Forumite
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    Oh my wee pal,

    I am feeling so sorry for you right now, the a******* that he is. Why can't they keep it in their pants:mad: :mad: . See, I suspected mine of this, but he denys it to this day and I just let it go, but I will never know. I know that whether he did or didn't, he got an almighty fright and won't go down that road again.

    You've got to get your head straight and decide what you want to do next. I think women that go with married men are horrible troll c**s and should be drowned at birth (sorry for the outburst, that's how I feel about them). The men are as bad right enough.

    He will come to his senses when he is stuck with the smelly troll and her (not his) kids. Then it might be too late for him.

    You can PM me if you want, I'll even phone you if you have no-one to talk to.

    Take care,

    SL xx
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