Marriage over don't know where to start

mumoftwins

Ah, the truth will out........

I'm so sorry Kizzy, did you phone his friend, is that how you found out?

I guess the feelings you have are probably rage at the moment mixed with tearfulness and wondering 'why? why? why?'

At least you now know. I would speak very calmly and choose your words carefully when you have it out with him as I have found that this takes them by surprise and you should get more out of him this way.

Lots of love and hugs,

MOT xx

bank_of_slate

It explains all the gushing notes and emails while he was away.
It was guilt!

Kizzy, how are you holding up hun?
...Linda xx

daphne_descends

Kizzy I'm so sorry have been following your thread and really hoped he wasn't cheating - but I'll be honest with you I don't know of a marriage that broke up because of the man wanting to without there being infidelity

What kind of a woman goes with a married man :mad:

Sending you strength xxx

immoral_angeluk

Kizzy I'm so so sorry. xx

Bagpuss741

Kizzy, I'm so sorry to hear what has happened and now to find out that your husband has been cheating on you. Don't really know what to say so listen to all the fab advise you've been getting from all the guys on this thread. Maybe the best thing to do is forget about him and concentrate on getting your life back together (easier said than done I know) Give your children a big cwtch (welsh hug) from me and here's one for you (((((((Kizzy)))))))

Buffythedebtslayer

Kizzy I am gutted for you, in tears for you and wish to God I was nearby.

Much love
Buffyxx

(if I really was the slayer I certainly be shoving a stake some where)

xxxxxx

kizzykizzywizzy

sorry just working through the edinburgh phone book - married woman fat with kids!!

Buffythedebtslayer

I hope you find the phone number.

xxxx

Keeping_Motivated

You'll find the number, when we are that angry/distraught we find some kind of inner resources and strength that take us in directions that lead us where we need to be.

I hope he is panicking and hopping around now not knowing what to do with himself!!

Oh and I hope the husband lands him one!!

kpwll

I'm so sorry that he has done this to you and the kiddies, at least you don't have to keep thinking 'What have I done' or What else could I have done'. The fault is his, the blame is his, the consequences are, unfortunately, everyones.
Now is the time to get the legal advice that you need, don't let him blindside you.
Try yell.com for the phone number.
Thinking of you and wishing you well. xx